Arguments?, ever had any? Options

[na-nancy]

okay, the reason i am posting a topic like this is because
me and my boyfriend for 6 months now ( we were best friends for 2 years before
dating) have never never ever had an argument at all. I mean, seriously.
It just popped in my mind today when my friend asked about us and asked if
we have any arguments and i answered her "no, not really" and the thought's been in my head
since. But, it's kinda weird, but is it....i can't find the word, is it okay to not have any arguments? I mean we get along all the time and i can talk to him about almost anything, haha. We're easy to talk to and never have much disagreements and think alike at times. It's just a little funny to me now that I think about it.
but tell me what you think.

[espressive]

yeah i was thinking the same thing when i was dating my exes, cause that's the type of relationship i've had with the guys i've dated. i dated this one guy for 7 months. we never argued. and i'm not just saying that... like seriously, i think our biggest 'argument' was about sports he's a big sports fanatic. i don't know, we had a very joking-around/sarcastic relationship so nothing really bothered us. and if something did, we'd bring it up with some humor so it wasn't awkward/upsetting to the other person. so i have heard that it is healthy to have arguments, but i don't think it's necessarily unhealthy to not have arguments... i mean, would you really rather want to be upset/yell at your bf/gf?

i can understand why some people believe arguments are healthy on a small scale, however. arguments arise from people addressing a bothersome issue in the wrong manner and/or people taking the conversation in the wrong way. so the key point is that there is a flaw in communication, but at least problems are addressed. if problems weren't addressed, that would be unhealthy. so i think that not havin arguments CAN be positive in the sense that problems are addressed/taken the right way. on the other hand though, there may not be arguments because both people are choosing not to address a situation, which can take a turn for the worse later down the road. so if you feel that there is a sense of maturity in your communication, then i think it's perfectly okay. props for doing that!

that was my speal