Shy or Insecure? |
 Sep 5 2008, 04:47 PM
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 talent on another level  Group: Member Posts: 746 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,735  |
My friend is a friendly nice guy, who is always easy to approach. He has a hard time finding other friends in college, and doesn't know exactly how or what to say to make them. I suggest parties, but he tells me their just for drinking, and he is not into that. He can't seem to find anyone that relates to him, and anyone he is friendly with is just a "hi" and walk by friend. He feels left out at times and sits in his room thinking about whether to go out or not because he doesn't have any guy friends to go out with.
Any suggestions on how I could help him overcome this issue? |
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Sep 10 2008, 03:05 PM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
I think he needs to get over being quiet and get out there and start conversations with people. This doesn't mean he needs to change himself or go out and go to these parties, but perhaps in class or something he needs to start conversations with people. Eventually you make friends.
Him staying in his room whining about it, isn't do anything besides making him feel sorry for himself. |
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bigtrey90 Shy or Insecure? Sep 5 2008, 04:47 PM
cakedout QUOTE(bigtrey90 @ Sep 5 2008, 02:47 PM) I... Sep 5 2008, 04:48 PM AyeVickaye You should take him out and introduce him to new p... Sep 5 2008, 04:57 PM misoshiru moved to relationships. Sep 5 2008, 05:03 PM
ArjunaCapulong QUOTE(misoshiru @ Sep 5 2008, 05:03 PM) m... Sep 5 2008, 05:07 PM karmakiller I used to be like that. I guess I didn't have ... Sep 5 2008, 05:33 PM cakedout PARTY POOPER Sep 5 2008, 05:45 PM karmakiller Such insightfulness you possess. Sep 5 2008, 05:59 PM cakedout Now why in the world do you insist of killing the ... Sep 5 2008, 06:00 PM bigtrey90 cakedout you offer such awful advice Sep 5 2008, 06:33 PM ArjunaCapulong QUOTE(bigtrey90 @ Sep 5 2008, 06:33 PM) c... Sep 5 2008, 09:41 PM cakedout QUOTE(bigtrey90 @ Sep 5 2008, 04:33 PM) c... Sep 9 2008, 11:04 AM bigtrey90 QUOTE(cakedout @ Sep 9 2008, 11:04 AM) ht... Sep 10 2008, 01:44 PM cakedout QUOTE(bigtrey90 @ Sep 10 2008, 11:44 AM) ... Sep 10 2008, 04:40 PM towntown2 The best thing to do would be to encourage him to ... Sep 5 2008, 09:28 PM Tomates take him out sometime.
Then maybe another day hang... Sep 5 2008, 09:49 PM bigtrey90 good advice! Sep 6 2008, 12:37 AM MrStrife It's hard but he needs to get over it. Or else... Sep 9 2008, 01:09 AM manic QUOTE(MrStrife @ Sep 9 2008, 01:09 AM) It... Sep 10 2008, 01:52 PM DoubleJ Normally I would say just go and get drunk, but tr... Sep 9 2008, 12:53 PM Tungster Give him a can of beer, and he'll loosen up. Sep 9 2008, 01:41 PM ----- Tell him to get more involved in classes and event... Sep 10 2008, 03:30 PM bigtrey90 Thanks for all the helpful advice!
He has bee... Sep 10 2008, 04:21 PM |
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