Did he know..., that you were a virgin Options

[aznlyka]

For all my life I've been a sweet and seemingly innocent girl, but for the longest time I've always felt a strong desire to be... bad .

So when I got to college, and was on my own schedule, there was this really nice, smart guy in my microbiology class who seemed to have taken a deep interest in me. I never really picked up how to flirt in high school, but this guy made it so easy because he was the type that was patient and authentically nice. We laughed a lot and eventually got together.

Now he was older; thus, being the fly guy he was, I knew he was also more 'experienced.' I wasn't. When things started to get heavy, I acted as if I was simply playing hard-to-get. He loved it, but I was really just catching up on how to have sex. I watched a lot of porn, lol. A LOT- like how a freak would. And I read a lot too. Being the study-type, perfectionist, I wanted to make sure that if I banged him, I'd bang him dam good for the first time.

SO when we got to that point. DAM. I was so glad he was so comfortable and patient with me. I never told him I was a virgin, but he took things slow, and kinda found out the kinks fast, and pretty well with me. I didn't have to do much work. My first time was great.

I only told him that he devirginized me our 3rd time which was like the 3rd day, lol. He was surprised- he had no clue.

So, did he know you were a virgin?

[aznlyka]

Does anyone think not saying that your a virgin before your first time with someone is wrong?

For some time before I knew I wanted to go deep with my man, I felt so scared of being a total dork when the whole bang went down. I was deadly afraid that I wouldn't be able to take it. That's why I loaded up on the porn and reading, I wanted to educate myself with some kinda skill that wouldn't have myself exposed as a prude kinda girl who didn't know what she was doing when I was with a guy who was so well-rounded and cool.

If I didn't "educate" myself, I think I may have had different results.

For girls who don't want to watch porn or buy books on sex, I think it may be important to inform your experienced guy of the uncertainty you have, how much you can take, how slow should he go. Am I right? and experienced guys, would you want to know if your lady was still virgin so that you won't hurt her, or go too fast. Right? or would you prefer them to be like me and do the dirty studying and then see how it goes with the real thing?