Baby, I'm stuck on you. Options

[sharerol]

Ok, so basically I went out with this guy for almost a year and we broke up before school ended around May/June. I really loved this guy(cliche i know, but it's true), and he loved me too. So I didn't see or talk to him for the entire summer, but I never got over him. I wasn't sad in the summer either, like i hung out with friends/kept myself occupied/saw other guys(although no guy compared to him). But even after all that time I just couldn't seem to move on.

School started up again this week, and my feelings for him grew so much stronger(again). I know he still has feelings for me too, but I don't know if he would wanna get back with me. I find it hard to approach him at school because there's a lot of awkward tension between us. Like when two people are near each other but they purposely look somewhere else or act like the other person's not there...that kinda stuff.

What messed up the relationship in the first place was that I got really jealous of this one girl he became close to, even though i knew he didn't have any feelings for her. So yeah...i know i pretty much messed that up. But the thing he, he actually likes that girl now. And at the same time he still feels something for me, so i know he's confused. I really don't know what to do, but I can't stop thinking about him. I really miss him, and i want him back. So....help? What should a poor girl like me do?

[sharerol]

Thanks everyone for all the advice. But i guess i misjudged things because he's going out with that girl now. So maybe i did have a reason to not trust him in the first place. Well whatever, he's missing out, and i have better things to do with my life.

[espressive]

aww cheryl i'm really sorry that it ended like that. seriously, don't waste your time with that guy okay? he's not worth it!

but there are moments when you "feel fine" and then thinking about it later makes you "feel bad" all over again. when you're in the tricky place, feel free to send me a message or something just to rant. i know i don't know you, but sometimes it's good to see the situation from a stranger's perspective. and i've recently gone through something of a similar nature, so it'll make you feel better that you're not the only one. plus i have many happy songs/quotes to cheer you up! speakin of, here's my favorite marilyn monroe quote, "i believe everything happens for a reason. people change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they're wrong; you belive lies so you can eventually learn to trust no one but yourself. sometimes, good things fall apart so better things fall together."

keep up that positive attitude & keep your head up, gorgeous. please smile! :]

[sharerol]

aww cheryl i'm really sorry that it ended like that. seriously, don't waste your time with that guy okay? he's not worth it!

but there are moments when you "feel fine" and then thinking about it later makes you "feel bad" all over again. when you're in the tricky place, feel free to send me a message or something just to rant. i know i don't know you, but sometimes it's good to see the situation from a stranger's perspective. and i've recently gone through something of a similar nature, so it'll make you feel better that you're not the only one. plus i have many happy songs/quotes to cheer you up! speakin of, here's my favorite marilyn monroe quote, "i believe everything happens for a reason. people change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they're wrong; you belive lies so you can eventually learn to trust no one but yourself. sometimes, good things fall apart so better things fall together."

keep up that positive attitude & keep your head up, gorgeous. please smile! :]

Wowow, thanks for the support! Yeah i totally do that "i feel fine" then "i feel like shit" thing all the time. But I just need to learn to let go, and i'm actually doing really well at this point. Oh, and i love that Marilyn Monroe quote. How ironic though, I used the last line of that quote and put it in a poem I wrote for that guy after we broke up haha