Friends with Benefits., Only people who experience this please. (Yes, Aimee has a problem) Options

[AimeeLynn]

http://www.teenwire.com/infocus/2004/if-20...p309-friend.php

Friendship Fallout

Losing that friend is another potential risk of being FWB. "Once you start hooking up with a friend, you are in this weird limbo of not being just friends anymore, but also not being together," explains Mollie. "It's kind of hard to go back to normal if you hooked up." Before you get physical, ask yourself if hooking up is worth the risk of ruining your friendship.

Well I have this problem, I hooked up with a guy that I didn't think anything other than that he was hot and good looking. I didn't think about being a relationship with him nor did he. We both agreed that we are into hook ups more than being in a relationship.
After we hooked up, things felt different. I felt like he was done with me and it's weird just talking to each other. We were good friends until the hook up. He avoiding me and hardly ever talking to me.
When I see him with another girl I feel jealous and stupid.
I felt like I lost a friend just by doing this. I don't care if we don't hook up again (but it would be nice ) but I would want to be friends with him with him not being weird around me.

So how can you deal? How can you become good friends after a hook up?
Guys, after you hook up with a girl, do you still talk to them?

I just want to get it straight. All the guys I have hooked up with I still talk to but I don't know if it's different in college.

[MissFits]

Just because he slept with you doesn't mean he had feelings for you. I was friends with benefits with the guy I lost my virginity to one of the million times we broke up and I would NEVER suggest doing that, ever. Someone always ends up getting hurt, if you were friends before the sex.
I was also friends with benefits with my boyfriend before we got together, that's worked out rather well, though.

I think you should try to get over it. I'm sure you like him, but (and correct me if I'm wrong) if he liked you I think he'd be acting differently.