boyfriend problems. SERIOUS., please help! Options

[CO0KiE]

since i don't know anyone here i'd say it's safe to vent and post it all.

My boyfriend of 9 months and I haven't really been talking for a a little over a week now. I went 4 entire days without speaking to him and it worried me because his cell had been off and his mom had removed the landline. Maybe some of you are saying i'm clingy or overreactive but it's serious to me because his mom abused him physically and verbally. He wants to receive love from her. He wants to please her. He finally called me on the 4th night around 12 am and told me his mom took his phone because she was upset at him. She isn't allowed to do that. His dad and stepmom just recently moved to Mississippi and he was supposed to live with them, for his safety but he refused. While he was in mississippi for vacation though, his mom was being nice to him, and it made me suspicious. I told his stepmom about it and she said that that's how she is when she wants something. His mom knew that there was a possibility that he might stay there and she'd try to butter him to make him come back.
After the 4th night of hearing from him, i never heard from him again and it's been 3 days as of now. :(

His stepmom called me yesterday morning saying she and his dad felt like they left him in the pit of the devil. His mom is really evil. I never met her but from everything I've heard about her, she's a real a-hole. My mom won't let me go visit him to see if he's okay, because she's saying that if he loved me enough, he'd find a way to contact me. But he's practically on lock down in his home. She hasn't hit him or hurt his feelings yet as far as I know. But before he came back from Mississippi he promised if she hurt him physically or emotionally one more time, he'd move with his dad over there. His dad and stepmom are even willing to pay for my plane ticket to visit them there in the summer if my bf moves there.

His mom's abandoned him so many times, especially when he was a child. She's called him a bitch, a man-slut, a f**ker, etc. What kind of mom freaking says that!? His stepmom told me a few days ago that his mom might start working on me next, and she might try and convince him to break up with me. I've yet to talk to him about that. But it's been over a week now that i've been feeling like crap because of this drama.

I'm supposed to write down all the things he and i talk about in a journal whenever he calls from now on because his stepmom said, should anything happen, they might need it for court. And she even gave me the number for child protective services, if i'd need to call for him.

:( it's awful. I know I can't really do anything besides wait, but it's so unbearable! Because I don't go out often and I've nothing to do, but sit here and worry over him.

Can someone please say something, anything that could help?
Or even please pray for him? His name's Elias. Thanks

[xhugerific]

what the hell?! dude if you REALLY love him, i think its best fer you to call child services. i'll pray & alot of people here will, but that isn't enough. you've GOT to do something about it.

[CO0KiE]

what the hell?! dude if you REALLY love him, i think its best fer you to call child services. i'll pray & alot of people here will, but that isn't enough. you've GOT to do something about it.

i want to, but his stepmom in mississippi told me not to call until she hurts him or something. Because they've tried stuff like that I think before, and they couldn't make the mom go to prison or anything like that. SO i don't know..

[xhugerific]

i want to, but his stepmom in mississippi told me not to call until she hurts him or something. Because they've tried stuff like that I think before, and they couldn't make the mom go to prison or anything like that. SO i don't know..

dammit are you furreal?! argh. this is really serious. i know you can't visit him, but you could try. like try and sneak and like whenever his mom abuses him or somethingg, get it all on camera. and show it at court.

[CO0KiE]

dammit are you furreal?! argh. this is really serious. i know you can't visit him, but you could try. like try and sneak and like whenever his mom abuses him or somethingg, get it all on camera. and show it at court.

my digi cam is broken... i'm saving up for a new one.
and i can't sneak out, because my sister sleeps with me, even if i COULD, I wouldn'tbe able to see him. Because he lives 40 minutes away from me... And I have no way to get there...
He's got the number of child protective servies also, but i don't know if he can call, because he doesn't have his phone, and he has to PAY his sister to use his phone, AND there is no longer a land line. His mom removed the landline so that his dad and his stepmom couldn't contact him.