Shy or Insecure? |
 Sep 5 2008, 04:47 PM
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 talent on another level  Group: Member Posts: 746 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,735  |
My friend is a friendly nice guy, who is always easy to approach. He has a hard time finding other friends in college, and doesn't know exactly how or what to say to make them. I suggest parties, but he tells me their just for drinking, and he is not into that. He can't seem to find anyone that relates to him, and anyone he is friendly with is just a "hi" and walk by friend. He feels left out at times and sits in his room thinking about whether to go out or not because he doesn't have any guy friends to go out with.
Any suggestions on how I could help him overcome this issue? |
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Sep 5 2008, 05:33 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
I used to be like that. I guess I didn't have friends that cared enough to do something about it, though. Haha. I still don't really like parties. Well, the parties that my friends go to go to drink and do drugs, and that's not my thing.
Maybe you should get only a few of your friends together that you know will be able to deal with someone shy. Let them know how he is. It's easier to include someone if there's only a few of you. Then ask him to do something with you and your other friends that you know he likes. |
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bigtrey90 Shy or Insecure? Sep 5 2008, 04:47 PM
cakedout QUOTE(bigtrey90 @ Sep 5 2008, 02:47 PM) I... Sep 5 2008, 04:48 PM AyeVickaye You should take him out and introduce him to new p... Sep 5 2008, 04:57 PM misoshiru moved to relationships. Sep 5 2008, 05:03 PM
ArjunaCapulong QUOTE(misoshiru @ Sep 5 2008, 05:03 PM) m... Sep 5 2008, 05:07 PM cakedout PARTY POOPER Sep 5 2008, 05:45 PM karmakiller Such insightfulness you possess. Sep 5 2008, 05:59 PM cakedout Now why in the world do you insist of killing the ... Sep 5 2008, 06:00 PM bigtrey90 cakedout you offer such awful advice Sep 5 2008, 06:33 PM ArjunaCapulong QUOTE(bigtrey90 @ Sep 5 2008, 06:33 PM) c... Sep 5 2008, 09:41 PM cakedout QUOTE(bigtrey90 @ Sep 5 2008, 04:33 PM) c... Sep 9 2008, 11:04 AM bigtrey90 QUOTE(cakedout @ Sep 9 2008, 11:04 AM) ht... Sep 10 2008, 01:44 PM cakedout QUOTE(bigtrey90 @ Sep 10 2008, 11:44 AM) ... Sep 10 2008, 04:40 PM towntown2 The best thing to do would be to encourage him to ... Sep 5 2008, 09:28 PM Tomates take him out sometime.
Then maybe another day hang... Sep 5 2008, 09:49 PM bigtrey90 good advice! Sep 6 2008, 12:37 AM MrStrife It's hard but he needs to get over it. Or else... Sep 9 2008, 01:09 AM manic QUOTE(MrStrife @ Sep 9 2008, 01:09 AM) It... Sep 10 2008, 01:52 PM DoubleJ Normally I would say just go and get drunk, but tr... Sep 9 2008, 12:53 PM Tungster Give him a can of beer, and he'll loosen up. Sep 9 2008, 01:41 PM Insurmountable I think he needs to get over being quiet and get o... Sep 10 2008, 03:05 PM ----- Tell him to get more involved in classes and event... Sep 10 2008, 03:30 PM bigtrey90 Thanks for all the helpful advice!
He has bee... Sep 10 2008, 04:21 PM |
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