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whats up with guys these days? they dont want to be in relationships anymore?
StubbornFemme
post Sep 3 2008, 06:37 PM
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my friends and ive been noticing WHY guys these days dont want to be in relationships (the boyfreind/girlfriend status) anymore? some would want to be in a "open relationship", leave it as "dating" but nothing farther than that, or the classic sayings "im not ready/i need time/ i want to stay single/ i dont want to hurt you..etc"...?

but seriously though, why is that? its hard to even find a guy youre interested in and wants to be in a relationship :/ do guys just not want to deal with it all together or what?
 
 
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AyeVickaye
post Sep 5 2008, 04:43 PM
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they prolly don't wanna have to deal w/ the drama. They jst want to have fun right now. Not have to worry about somebody gettin' hurt or somebody being jealous or cheating...some People jst don't wanna be committed right now, its not jst the guys, its the girls as well...They don't wanna be locked down on one person... especially @ dances...they dont wanna be stuck dancing with jst one person all night. yadidi? Single people are free to flirt w/ anyone and talk to anyone and Taken people can't do that...plus some people are too tied down on work and school to be juggling a relationship as well...its stressful yo..
 

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StubbornFemme   whats up with guys these days? they dont want to be in relationships anymore?   Sep 3 2008, 06:37 PM
jaeminnie   A lot of guys don't want to be in a committed ...   Sep 3 2008, 06:39 PM
StubbornFemme   QUOTE(jaeminnie @ Sep 3 2008, 04:39 PM) A...   Sep 3 2008, 06:46 PM
Tomates   for me its been the girls ive noticed doing that a...   Sep 3 2008, 06:42 PM
karmakiller   I'm a girl and I don't want to be in a ser...   Sep 3 2008, 06:44 PM
misoshiru   i don't want to be in a relationship. and the...   Sep 3 2008, 06:47 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(misoshiru @ Sep 3 2008, 07:47 PM) i...   Sep 3 2008, 10:46 PM
MissUchiha   ive noticed that too both boys and girls i dont g...   Sep 3 2008, 06:52 PM
StubbornFemme   QUOTE(MissUchiha @ Sep 3 2008, 04:52 PM) ...   Sep 3 2008, 06:57 PM
karmakiller   Haha, thanks. Honestly, you're in high schoo...   Sep 3 2008, 08:51 PM
misoshiru   i hate you. why'd you have to out me?   Sep 3 2008, 10:53 PM
Insurmountable   I will take the time to quote from a movie: ...   Sep 4 2008, 01:39 AM
xxstarpower   I hate serious relationships. I like to have fun. ...   Sep 4 2008, 07:29 PM
Tomates   QUOTE(xxstarpower @ Sep 4 2008, 08:29 PM)...   Sep 5 2008, 09:48 PM
StubbornFemme   QUOTE(xxstarpower @ Sep 4 2008, 05:29 PM)...   Sep 10 2008, 03:57 PM
fr4nk13   Well I've fooled around too much at this point...   Sep 5 2008, 04:28 PM
AyeVickaye   they prolly don't wanna have to deal w/ the dr...   Sep 5 2008, 04:43 PM
brooklyneast05   because a lot girls become so overly obsessive so ...   Sep 5 2008, 04:45 PM
Butterflyphoenix   it's today's society.   Sep 6 2008, 01:50 PM
cakedout   Well not much as changed, and it shouldn't be ...   Sep 10 2008, 04:45 PM
Dominatrix   Tis why I am not dating anything with a penis for ...   Sep 10 2008, 05:51 PM
karmakiller   QUOTE(Dominatrix @ Sep 10 2008, 05:51 PM)...   Sep 10 2008, 11:39 PM
avocado   serious relationships should be avoided in highsch...   Sep 11 2008, 02:49 PM
manic   I think that its hard for guys to be in a serious ...   Sep 11 2008, 04:02 PM
espressive   QUOTE(avocado @ Sep 11 2008, 02:49 PM) se...   Sep 11 2008, 04:09 PM
manic   QUOTEjust the same can be said about guys. The sam...   Sep 11 2008, 04:15 PM
brooklyneast05   girls are clingy, end of story.   Sep 11 2008, 04:09 PM
shannlovin   maybe it's because some guys aren't sure w...   Sep 11 2008, 06:31 PM
LoveToMySilas   Some people don't want a serious relationship ...   Sep 11 2008, 06:37 PM
espressive   ^ word.   Sep 11 2008, 09:27 PM


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