honest opinions about yourself Options

[synatribe]

well after some things I have heard from people I wanted to start a topic so that people will get to know my side
so heres where you post opinions about yourself and only yourself

Im a very honest, Im very blunt also, Im not going to hide it
yes I have jocked the Marksterr and Roxanne's layouts before but in all honesty that was during my learning, imitaiting cool people phase.

I told you Im honest Im not going to run away from createblog or try to defend myself, honestly though Im dissapointed at how some staff handled the issue, also Im very annoying at first, cause thats sort of a test to you from me. idk but eventually I grow respect for you.
so yea after all the "honest opinions about you thread" I felt like I needed to explain.

how do you see yourself?

[tokyo-rose]

Ever since I was little, I've had the desire to please people. I just don't like pissing people off or having people not like me. But I have recently decided to just not care so much anymore. My desire to have people like me has caused me too much pain, and I'm tired of it. Now I'm just going to try to be honest with people. This doesn't mean I'll be bashing people left and right and giving my complete and truthful thoughts of them...

... And I think that I'm quite nice and polite. I'm very patient and good with kids, but I'm horrible with people around my age. I just get awkward.

No one likes to have people dislike or be angry with them, but you definitely shouldn't hold all your negative feelings in just to avoid angering others. I'm glad you decided to change. There's always a way to be constructively and courteously honest, but if you really can't find a way to do so, then don't say anything. (That last sentence is not directed at you, Joanne; it's a general "you.")

I'm pretty much the same. I'm definitely not the kind of person who spews negativity and criticism everywhere I go, because I dislike people who are like that. Mean people suck. :| And a lot of the time I'm awkward around strangers my age since I'm more mature than a lot of them are, so I feel like I can't really relate to them.

I never wanted to be a mother. I always thought that the idea of me having a child would be a horrible situation. I don't care much for children and I like having time to myself and the freedom to do what I want, when I want. However, my son and I are the closest thing to "soul mates" I have ever personally witnessed. I think that I might have gone down a very dark path had it not been for him. While I'm not at all a religious person, I've always felt that Iz was my "savior", for lack of a better way of putting it. He is my saving grace, my ultimate accomplishment and the love of my life.

Aw, Rebecca.

I keep to myself probably more than I should. I always believed in less talk, less trouble. It's why I prefer having people start conversations with me and not vice versa.

I used to keep to myself a lot on CreateBlog. Like, I posted everywhere (was too active for my own good, basically), but I never had anyone that I considered my friend here, except a few. That's changed over the past however many months, but still.

The same goes for real life, too. I used to be so quiet all the time, and apparently that gave people the wrong impression of me, as I later learned. You know, people sometimes think that extremely quiet individuals must be stuck up or something, even though that wasn't the case with me. It's just that I prefer to let others approach me if they want to.