don't know what to do.... Options

[straightedge9]

Last year the sweetest guy ever asked me out.... we went out for nearly 4 months i think, but since he was going on to another school, we split up since we would never see each other. But he would always find a way to keep in touch... calling me, IMing me... the minute i signed on he would say hi, even when it hadnt finished loading yet. recently, he came to one of my band concerts, (btw, its been a year since we went out) and he wrote me a note, saying how he still loved me and wanted to be with me, but he had a girlfriend, and he didnt know what to do about it. He talked to me later about the whole affair, and i just told him to be happy, to do whatever... and it hasnt been the same since. he hasnt said anything to me suggesting we were more than just casual friends. But yet, when i've been seeing him at marching band camp (haha im a nerd i know...) i catch him looking at me, when i walk by he smiles, and he showed a real concern when i nearly passed out at practice.... what am i supposed to think??

[babixangela]

First, you should find out if he still likes you. If he really seems sincere and remorseful for what he had done, then you should go out with him again [if you still like him.]