whats up with guys these days? they dont want to be in relationships anymore? |
 Sep 3 2008, 06:37 PM
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my friends and ive been noticing WHY guys these days dont want to be in relationships (the boyfreind/girlfriend status) anymore? some would want to be in a "open relationship", leave it as "dating" but nothing farther than that, or the classic sayings "im not ready/i need time/ i want to stay single/ i dont want to hurt you..etc"...?
but seriously though, why is that? its hard to even find a guy youre interested in and wants to be in a relationship :/ do guys just not want to deal with it all together or what? |
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Sep 3 2008, 06:39 PM
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A lot of guys don't want to be in a committed relationship because they just want to have fun dating different girls. They don't want to be tied down so young. (I make it sound like they're getting married or something.
 ) Even if you don't see a committed relationship as something serious, they might.
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Sep 3 2008, 06:46 PM
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QUOTE(jaeminnie @ Sep 3 2008, 04:39 PM)  A lot of guys don't want to be in a committed relationship because they just want to have fun dating different girls. They don't want to be tied down so young. (I make it sound like they're getting married or something. that true, i thought about that as a possibility as well...but sometimes i dont get some guys because they say they want someone to be with but then they dont. but anywho, haha somtimes i like to guys are just kinda lazy about the whole relationship part because its "serious" and it has to deal w/ a lot of work (which i totally understand because it is). it just kinda makes me bum out a bit because i see other people in one around my age and its like "WHERE CAN I FIND ME ONE OF THOSE?!" haha. ) Even if you don't see a committed relationship as something serious, they might. to karmakiller: (love the username btw :] haha.) yeah im in the same position as you, full time student, working part time, and helping the mom out. but yeah, probably i am looking in the wrong place who knows? it just would be real nice to have someone else to care about you, do all that sweet stuff, and etc. but hey, we'll see. the semester did just start for me, so probably some real contenders out there haha. to tomates: wow really? well the people at my school are either with somebody or the ones that dont want to be in a relationship. but its not just at school, it other places as well but then again im not the only experiencing this but yeahh, haha i should go to your school then ahha. |
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StubbornFemme whats up with guys these days? they dont want to be in relationships anymore? Sep 3 2008, 06:37 PM
Tomates for me its been the girls ive noticed doing that a... Sep 3 2008, 06:42 PM karmakiller I'm a girl and I don't want to be in a ser... Sep 3 2008, 06:44 PM misoshiru i don't want to be in a relationship. and the... Sep 3 2008, 06:47 PM
mipadi QUOTE(misoshiru @ Sep 3 2008, 07:47 PM) i... Sep 3 2008, 10:46 PM MissUchiha ive noticed that too both boys and girls
i dont g... Sep 3 2008, 06:52 PM StubbornFemme QUOTE(MissUchiha @ Sep 3 2008, 04:52 PM) ... Sep 3 2008, 06:57 PM karmakiller Haha, thanks.
Honestly, you're in high schoo... Sep 3 2008, 08:51 PM misoshiru i hate you. why'd you have to out me? Sep 3 2008, 10:53 PM Insurmountable I will take the time to quote from a movie:
... Sep 4 2008, 01:39 AM xxstarpower I hate serious relationships. I like to have fun. ... Sep 4 2008, 07:29 PM Tomates QUOTE(xxstarpower @ Sep 4 2008, 08:29 PM)... Sep 5 2008, 09:48 PM StubbornFemme QUOTE(xxstarpower @ Sep 4 2008, 05:29 PM)... Sep 10 2008, 03:57 PM fr4nk13 Well I've fooled around too much at this point... Sep 5 2008, 04:28 PM AyeVickaye they prolly don't wanna have to deal w/ the dr... Sep 5 2008, 04:43 PM brooklyneast05 because a lot girls become so overly obsessive so ... Sep 5 2008, 04:45 PM Butterflyphoenix it's today's society. Sep 6 2008, 01:50 PM cakedout Well not much as changed, and it shouldn't be ... Sep 10 2008, 04:45 PM Dominatrix Tis why I am not dating anything with a penis for ... Sep 10 2008, 05:51 PM karmakiller QUOTE(Dominatrix @ Sep 10 2008, 05:51 PM)... Sep 10 2008, 11:39 PM avocado serious relationships should be avoided in highsch... Sep 11 2008, 02:49 PM manic I think that its hard for guys to be in a serious ... Sep 11 2008, 04:02 PM espressive QUOTE(avocado @ Sep 11 2008, 02:49 PM) se... Sep 11 2008, 04:09 PM manic QUOTEjust the same can be said about guys.
The sam... Sep 11 2008, 04:15 PM brooklyneast05 girls are clingy, end of story. Sep 11 2008, 04:09 PM shannlovin maybe it's because some guys aren't sure w... Sep 11 2008, 06:31 PM LoveToMySilas Some people don't want a serious relationship ... Sep 11 2008, 06:37 PM espressive ^
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