Why is she acting this way? Options

[jenny1]

Why is she acting this way?
Okay i met this girl at the family party and we started talking and i asked her number and her screen name so she gave it to me, and after that we talk for 3-6 hours a day, we also talk and flirt on the phone,text and chat online. We've known each other for a month and half we hung out and we flirt too, and i know she likes me and i like her, she even cooked for me but the thing is i told her that i love her and she started acting different, i told her i wanna be with her and i love her and everything and when i told her she started picking fights and she told me that she doesn't believe in love, because it sounds too serious and she doesn't like it when i say i love you to her. She never had a bf and she says shes a flirt but i know she likes me, yet she didn't wanna go out with me, and i told her we could be friends, but she keeps getting mad or picking fights about it and she told me that we shouldn't talk for a while and so i agreed and told her to talk to me when shes ready but its been 2 weeks and shes still hasn't talked to me even when we see each other she ignores me and wont even look at me in the eye, she just reply me with the short answer when i talk to her and i asked her why she doesnt reply my text and she said i dont know and i dont know why she wont talk to me if she likes me too, but i don't know now what do you think about this? we were doing REALLLY good and we liked eachother, but when i told her i how i love her and wanna be with her she started acting weird and we dont talk anymore. please help!!

[datass]

you keep saying "i know she likes me" but how can you be so sure?

[towntown2]

you keep saying "i know she likes me" but how can you be so sure?

Good point.

It sounds to me that you said the L word way way early. You're classifying your "like" for her into something that is so beyond what it really is.
You like her a lot. But you don't love her yet.
[You'll realize soon enough that we're right.]

She obviously knows that you said it way too fast and freaked her out.
She sounds a lot like me. I know what she meant by being a flirt yet still having feelings for somebody.
You freaked her out, and that's why she's giving short answers. She can't look at you in the eyes because now she's uncomfortable around you, and your trying to force a one-sided friendship doesn't help.

She hasn't talked to you in two weeks because she's not ready [obviously]. Give her space and time to cool off and forget about the weirdness that happened. This is not about how much you want to talk to her. This is about how she feels about the situation. DO NOT force things to happen. The more you do, the more you'll turn her off. In time, if she wants to become your friend again, she will.