Is Marriage A Lose/Lose Prospect For Men? Options

[teresa57]

I read this today, and although it is very harsh- I don't see anywhere in this where there is anythng that isn't true.
http://loseloseprospect.blogspot.com/

[teresa57]

Actually my son was seriously injured and had to go to the hospital that day, while his wife didn't have even so much as a mark on her. She simply stated to the police that it was an act of self-defence because she felt 'threatened.'

Are you not familiar with VAWA? The article explains the many, many problems with the legislation towards the bottom. False accusations of DV are now so commonplace that they now have become the norm, not the exception. Women use these laws to gain property, custody of children, or use them out of vindictiveness.

Enter 'false accusation of domestic violence' into Google and there are 230,000 results. These laws are also used by women from outside the U.S. to gain citizenship. Sadly our divorce courts have become very, very corrupt.

Or a woman can simply file a restraning order out of nowhere claiming she felt 'threatened,' to also use as leverage in divorce court, even more common. Restraining orders today are so easy to obtain that a mentally ill woman successfully filed a restraining order against David Letterman because she thought he was stalking her through her television. Read here:
http://www.courttv.com/people/2005/1222/da...tterman_ap.html

Working for an attorney, I see much more than the normal person. All of these issues may not be of concern to a woman, but for a man these laws and the court system today is extremely troubling and a deterrent to marraige and why so many young men are refusing to either marry or co-habitate with a woman.

Falsely Accused of Domestic Violence?
http://www.patrickjcrawfordlaw.com/Practic...ic-Violence.asp

"As in many sex crime cases, domestic violence and abuse situations are often based upon false accusations. Unfortunately, some spouses, domestic partners, or significant others believe that they can gain the upper hand in any related family law legal matters by accusing another family member of domestic abuse. I am dedicated to determining the basis for these accusations and aggressively standing up for your rights and justice."