Am I asking to much? |
Am I asking to much? |
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Idk if i'm being a little prissy bitch or wat but tell me ur opinion...
So this whole summer he was all talk about him working just for the sole purpose of helping me out with rent and stuff. He doesnt need a job either. He lives with his parents and they pay for EVERYTHING, and when i say everything I mean free freakin gas. lucky bitch ik. yea and i just turned 19 outta my parent's house, paying for everything, school, rent, bills, gas, insurance, everything. So when the time came i actually needed help, he kinda disappointed me. He said he was gna give me 200 the minimum a month and when I asked him to help me he only gave me half. And i hated asking for help, financially wise anyways, to my boyfriend none the less. I've always been independent since I was 16, paying for everything, down to my freakin socks. So when I broke down my pride to ask for financial assistance it was really hard for me. I mean I dont want him to feel obligated to help me out at all. And I am grateful for everything he's done. It's just he doesnt really live up to his word and rise to the occasion. It's all talk and I would rather have someone not make any promises at all when they cant do it. And he defiantly can its just he's really cheap lol. idk. All in all I'm just trying to say, IT SUCKS BEING POOR! lol but really am i sounding like im asking to much from him? |
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![]() Cornflakes :D ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 ![]() |
Did you edit your first post to say what it does now, or am I missing something?
I don't think there is anything wrong with asking him for some money that your going to pay him back for, especially if he offered before hand that he would help you out. I don't know if its just me, and me being a girl as well, but I don't think there was anything wrong with that you did and I understand how hard it is to actually come out and admit that you need help. If your complaining that he only gave you $100, instead of the $200 that he said he would give you, then I mean I don't know what to tell you, but to suck it up. He technically doesn't have to help you, unless he sits around at your place and uses your things and eats your food, or drives your car, etc. I think if you really needed the $200, then you should have came out and said, Can you please lend me $200. Or are you not paying him back for this stuff? |
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