When 2 people get back Together again!, what will go through a girls... Options

[gr00vyswordsman]

When a lady and her previous boyfriend are talking about getting back together, what goes through a lady's mind when talking about getting back together?

Im curious... we would confide with each other, had nice emotional connection on a deep level with each other, trust and nice passion. Was a nice relationship. It's been a year now, and we both still have full barrels of feelings for each other.

[MissFits]

^Agreed.
Whenever a relationship dissolves I think of what made it go wrong. If it were circumstances maybe based on timing alone, or other things out of our control I'd consider it. But, if it were incompatible personalities unless the other person and I have both made some serious changes in our lives it seems pointless to get back together because we will end up just like we did last time, hurt and lonely. I think relationships are an instance in which practice does not make perfect, but leads to unhealthy relationships. Do not try and try to be with a person if it never works out, there is a reason it doesn't work out, and you need to move on to someone that will make you happy for a longer period of time. You would hate to be with someone and make a family with them just to have them leave you when things don't work out, again.

I'm not saying that's how it's going to be for you, but that's how I look at it.