Am I asking to much? |
Am I asking to much? |
Aug 29 2008, 07:58 AM
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Idk if i'm being a little prissy bitch or wat but tell me ur opinion...
So this whole summer he was all talk about him working just for the sole purpose of helping me out with rent and stuff. He doesnt need a job either. He lives with his parents and they pay for EVERYTHING, and when i say everything I mean free freakin gas. lucky bitch ik. yea and i just turned 19 outta my parent's house, paying for everything, school, rent, bills, gas, insurance, everything. So when the time came i actually needed help, he kinda disappointed me. He said he was gna give me 200 the minimum a month and when I asked him to help me he only gave me half. And i hated asking for help, financially wise anyways, to my boyfriend none the less. I've always been independent since I was 16, paying for everything, down to my freakin socks. So when I broke down my pride to ask for financial assistance it was really hard for me. I mean I dont want him to feel obligated to help me out at all. And I am grateful for everything he's done. It's just he doesnt really live up to his word and rise to the occasion. It's all talk and I would rather have someone not make any promises at all when they cant do it. And he defiantly can its just he's really cheap lol. idk. All in all I'm just trying to say, IT SUCKS BEING POOR! lol but really am i sounding like im asking to much from him? |
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Aug 29 2008, 09:10 AM
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Baby - Im BAD NEWS ! ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,669 |
So, you needed help and he helped you out but with less than what he promissed ? Is that it ?
Look, I think you're asking too much because you dont live with him do you ? So he has no dutty on helping you out financially, I mean if I lived out of my parents house and if i was going through some dificulties I obviously would sit down with him and talk about it , but since we were not living in the same house, EVEN IF I ASKED HIM FOR HELP, I wouldnt be with big expectations about him helping me solving my financial problems, because he's just my bf, he's not my parent ! Anyway you say you're grateful and yes, you should be because even if he's the cheapest person on earth he helped you out. And Im telling you, most people wouldnt even care. They would just say - " OK I will help you" & then turn their back & say "Screw you, im not yo folk " Its a cold world. |
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