Am I asking to much? |
Am I asking to much? |
Aug 29 2008, 07:58 AM
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Idk if i'm being a little prissy bitch or wat but tell me ur opinion...
So this whole summer he was all talk about him working just for the sole purpose of helping me out with rent and stuff. He doesnt need a job either. He lives with his parents and they pay for EVERYTHING, and when i say everything I mean free freakin gas. lucky bitch ik. yea and i just turned 19 outta my parent's house, paying for everything, school, rent, bills, gas, insurance, everything. So when the time came i actually needed help, he kinda disappointed me. He said he was gna give me 200 the minimum a month and when I asked him to help me he only gave me half. And i hated asking for help, financially wise anyways, to my boyfriend none the less. I've always been independent since I was 16, paying for everything, down to my freakin socks. So when I broke down my pride to ask for financial assistance it was really hard for me. I mean I dont want him to feel obligated to help me out at all. And I am grateful for everything he's done. It's just he doesnt really live up to his word and rise to the occasion. It's all talk and I would rather have someone not make any promises at all when they cant do it. And he defiantly can its just he's really cheap lol. idk. All in all I'm just trying to say, IT SUCKS BEING POOR! lol but really am i sounding like im asking to much from him? |
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Aug 29 2008, 08:56 AM
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Mais je ne l'aime pas ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
If he physically lives with you at your place full time, then he should pay for half of the rent because you two are in a roommate situation.
That's just common sense regardless of your financial backgrounds. I understand the pride issue when it comes to asking for money. However, if the condition calls for it, then there's nothing else you can do. It doesn't hurt to ask for help from time to time. [You must've edited out the Pearl Jam thing in your first post cause I have no idea how the concert thing came about.] |
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