Am I asking to much? |
Am I asking to much? |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 681,057 ![]() |
Idk if i'm being a little prissy bitch or wat but tell me ur opinion...
So this whole summer he was all talk about him working just for the sole purpose of helping me out with rent and stuff. He doesnt need a job either. He lives with his parents and they pay for EVERYTHING, and when i say everything I mean free freakin gas. lucky bitch ik. yea and i just turned 19 outta my parent's house, paying for everything, school, rent, bills, gas, insurance, everything. So when the time came i actually needed help, he kinda disappointed me. He said he was gna give me 200 the minimum a month and when I asked him to help me he only gave me half. And i hated asking for help, financially wise anyways, to my boyfriend none the less. I've always been independent since I was 16, paying for everything, down to my freakin socks. So when I broke down my pride to ask for financial assistance it was really hard for me. I mean I dont want him to feel obligated to help me out at all. And I am grateful for everything he's done. It's just he doesnt really live up to his word and rise to the occasion. It's all talk and I would rather have someone not make any promises at all when they cant do it. And he defiantly can its just he's really cheap lol. idk. All in all I'm just trying to say, IT SUCKS BEING POOR! lol but really am i sounding like im asking to much from him? |
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![]() The Resident Drunk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 ![]() |
I understand what you are saying, but you have to be realistic at the same time. Ok, so yeah he was using the utilities, what are you going to do when he comes over? Turn the power off? If that is the case, you should have told your friend's man to fork over some cash too.
The issue with the tickets to me is silly. I can understand if it was a band that you absolutely don't like, but according to you, pearl jam is amazing. That is like me saying I hated going to a concert by The Vines who I think are amazing, but aren't my favorite band. You should be happy that he did something at all. |
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