Am I asking to much? Options

[CocaineNoseJob]

Idk if i'm being a little prissy bitch or wat but tell me ur opinion...



So this whole summer he was all talk about him working just for the sole purpose of helping me out with rent and stuff. He doesnt need a job either. He lives with his parents and they pay for EVERYTHING, and when i say everything I mean free freakin gas. lucky bitch ik. yea and i just turned 19 outta my parent's house, paying for everything, school, rent, bills, gas, insurance, everything. So when the time came i actually needed help, he kinda disappointed me. He said he was gna give me 200 the minimum a month and when I asked him to help me he only gave me half. And i hated asking for help, financially wise anyways, to my boyfriend none the less. I've always been independent since I was 16, paying for everything, down to my freakin socks. So when I broke down my pride to ask for financial assistance it was really hard for me.

I mean I dont want him to feel obligated to help me out at all. And I am grateful for everything he's done. It's just he doesnt really live up to his word and rise to the occasion. It's all talk and I would rather have someone not make any promises at all when they cant do it. And he defiantly can its just he's really cheap lol. idk. All in all I'm just trying to say, IT SUCKS BEING POOR! lol but really am i sounding like im asking to much from him?

[DoubleJ]

You sound like a selfish dumb ass right now. How do you complain about going to a concert for a band that you said is amazing? Be grateful that he did anything at all for your birthday. The fact that he is helping you out with YOUR bills is commendable to me. I know plenty of people that would have been like NEXT! So what if he couldn't give you the 200....he still gave you something. How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot?

In some parts of your story, you are actually trying to make people feel sorry that you have to pay for your own shit...get over it. I have been paying for my own shit since 16 too, and have always found a way to get by.

To call him cheap is laughable. I bet he wasn't cheap when you were sitting your ass at that Pearl Jam concert was he? Grow up!