I hate it when a guy doesn't get the tab..., and I have to pull my money out and that looks bad. Options

[AimeeLynn]

Ugh, I'm dating a guy that is a cheap ass. I go out with him I have to pay for everything and I drive him when we go out. I'm sick of this.
Do you have a guy that is a cheap ass and doesn't want to pay for anything and uses you as a taxi driver?

And guys, do you hate to pay for everything? Do think it's best to split the bill?


Where are the hopes?
Where are the dreams?
My Cinderella story scene?
When do you think they'll finally see?

[mizzkewl06]

i try to be equal. we usually split things, like he'll drive his car and i'll buy food. or if we go to the movies i'll buy the tickets and he'll pay for food. i know he has to work just as hard as i do for his money, so i don't mind paying. of course if he never paid and always expected me to take him everywhere and pay for everything, i'd be pretty pissed. you should straight up tell him that you're nobody's sugar mama and that if he wants anything to cotinue between the two of you he should split the costs with you or atleast give you some gas money.

[karmakiller]

i try to be equal. we usually split things, like he'll drive his car and i'll buy food. or if we go to the movies i'll buy the tickets and he'll pay for food. i know he has to work just as hard as i do for his money, so i don't mind paying. of course if he never paid and always expected me to take him everywhere and pay for everything, i'd be pretty pissed. you should straight up tell him that you're nobody's sugar mama and that if he wants anything to cotinue between the two of you he should split the costs with you or atleast give you some gas money.

I agree. I NEVER expect someone to pay for me, but for me to pay for them all the time is just unfair. Even when I go out with friends it's usually a "Oh, you got it last time. I'll get it this time." deal.