loved me. now doesnt.. |
loved me. now doesnt.. |
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ok so when my boyfriend and i went out for like a month and a half, we fell in love. Well i know i did. On our 3 months, he told me that he doesnt think he loves me anymore and he just needs more time. Its almost our 4 months and i dont know what to do. we talked last night about it briefly cuz ill get upset and he said he doesnt think its the right time. I love him with my whole heart. I want him to. I even tried new stuff to get him to like me more, which i know i shouldnt have done but i thought i had to. Can someone please give me advice on like what to say to him, or do you think he wont come around and love me again..
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![]() DDR \\ I'm Dee :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 ![]() |
It's a good thing that he's being honest with you about how he feels and isn't just going along with things to make you happy. I know that it probably hurts to let him go, but it's better after only 4 months than waiting years to make the split. Maybe he just doesn't fall in love as fast as you... maybe you should two should give it some more time. It may just take him longer than it being a fact that he doesn't love you.
It only took you 3 months to say that you love someone. So if you two broke up and you found another guy who's to say that after 3 months with him your current boyfriend will be emotional history. |
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