if you were cheated on would you be able to forgive Options

[ThePrettyGirlIAm]

i mean honestly if you were cheated on could you forgive your mate? i know i couldn't , i mean afterall that woudn't happen me being as pretty as i am. you should all be jealous.

[chaotiqthought]

I've been cheated on. A couple times. It would never have worked out anyways.

But the time it mattered the most, was when my current boyfriend cheated on me. Twice, and with his ex girlfriend(who had previously shattered his heart). He kissed her the first time, and he told me about it, without me asking him about it. The second time was about a month later. His Ex pushed herself on to him in a moment of weakness for him, and they had sex. His best friends had gone from the house to get soda or something or other so neither one of them knew. Days later my boyfriend confessed to me, crying his eyes out, repeating the phrases "I hate myself so much" and "I don't deserve you" several times over. Despite him cheating, and despite my hurting, I calmly asked him to tell me what happened. He did. About ten minutes after that, he told me he had something else to tell me. Me, being the pessimistic person I am, thought it was something else, equally horrible. He said to me, "I haven't been able to tell you this, because I haven't felt I deserved to since I was keeping that from you, but Gina, I love you." That was the first time he told me he loved me, and ever since then, he has worked his hardest to regain my trust. He refuses to talk to his ex now, and we love each other sincerely. We haven't had a problem since.

So, yes. I believe that under certain circumstances, it is indeed forgivable.