Busted!, I found him out! Options

[Ashley_Brook]

I live with my boyfriend that I have been with for a year. I have recently had much reason to suspect that he has a wandering eye, so I made a fake profile, a girl namaed "mandy" on myyearbook.com and emailed him on it to see if he would flirt back. This is what was all said.

"Mandy" - Hey there. I was just browsing around trying to find some friends in the area and came across your profile. You seem badass, so I thought I would add you as friends. So do you go to school around here? Btw I am Amanda and I am a Chinese food fanatic too! Write back whenever you can. C ya. ;)

Him - how goes it? im new to this site, so im still figuring out how to work it, but i would like to add you as a friend. you seem badass too.

"Mandy" - This website kinda sucks honestly lol. Lots of dumb stuff on here but I just use it to keep up with friends. Anyways so do you live at home? I'd like to get to know more about you.

Him - yeah, im not to impressed with it, but i wanted to check it out and i met you so its not all that bad. so tell me about you and then i'll tell you about me. i will tell you that i checked your photos and i like what i see ;)

"Mandy" - Well I I live with a couple of my friends, and I'm thinking about going to school for a career in graphic design. It's kind of dorky but it's what I enjoy doing. And I LOVE music but I don't think I'd be a good musician.
Aww thank you! A cutie like you has to be seeing someone I bet, huh?

Him - that sounds cool, where were you thinking of going? ball state?
i lived with a few friends too, but they didnt want to work or help pay rent or do anything around the place so i sent them on their way.
haha, yeah, sorry, but im free to do as i please...how about you?

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So what do you think? He's at work right now and doesn't get home until 7am and I'm planning on confronting him as soon as he gets home.

[Insurmountable]

Okay, my opinion of this all. That even though you were sneaky you had people that were friends with him tell you that he was sneaking around. So yea it may be wrong and immature that you made a fake profile to see if he would flirt back, but then again he flirt back. And he even made the first move by saying that this chick was good looking.

Oh also on your logs of him with your fake identity, is that he said "yeah, sorry" like he was in a relationship, but yet he was free to do what he pleases?

I don't know, it kind of confused me. I wouldn't be proud of finding out that your boyfriend has been cheating on you also. And I think if you bring it up then you shouldn't bring up this whole fake person thing, bring up the "proof" you have from the people telling you he was looking around at others.