Busted!, I found him out! Options

[Ashley_Brook]

I live with my boyfriend that I have been with for a year. I have recently had much reason to suspect that he has a wandering eye, so I made a fake profile, a girl namaed "mandy" on myyearbook.com and emailed him on it to see if he would flirt back. This is what was all said.

"Mandy" - Hey there. I was just browsing around trying to find some friends in the area and came across your profile. You seem badass, so I thought I would add you as friends. So do you go to school around here? Btw I am Amanda and I am a Chinese food fanatic too! Write back whenever you can. C ya. ;)

Him - how goes it? im new to this site, so im still figuring out how to work it, but i would like to add you as a friend. you seem badass too.

"Mandy" - This website kinda sucks honestly lol. Lots of dumb stuff on here but I just use it to keep up with friends. Anyways so do you live at home? I'd like to get to know more about you.

Him - yeah, im not to impressed with it, but i wanted to check it out and i met you so its not all that bad. so tell me about you and then i'll tell you about me. i will tell you that i checked your photos and i like what i see ;)

"Mandy" - Well I I live with a couple of my friends, and I'm thinking about going to school for a career in graphic design. It's kind of dorky but it's what I enjoy doing. And I LOVE music but I don't think I'd be a good musician.
Aww thank you! A cutie like you has to be seeing someone I bet, huh?

Him - that sounds cool, where were you thinking of going? ball state?
i lived with a few friends too, but they didnt want to work or help pay rent or do anything around the place so i sent them on their way.
haha, yeah, sorry, but im free to do as i please...how about you?

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So what do you think? He's at work right now and doesn't get home until 7am and I'm planning on confronting him as soon as he gets home.

[towntown2]

Sneaky, sneaky.
This whole setting a trap for your boyfriend thing is very treacherous.

I don't like how you seem to justify your actions by believing yourself to be smart for thinking up this fake profile.
99.9999999% of other girls don't get cheated on all the time.
You sound proud that you did this, though obviously not of the fact that you discovered firsthand of your boyfriend's supposed wandering eye.

The healthy thing would have been address those reports from the six other people face to face with your boyfriend.
Let him know that you don't want to be wasting your time with someone who cannot commit.

The silver lining is that he did admit to 'you' that he is in a relationship.

Maybe you should just save yourself all the worry and leave him.