Busted!, I found him out! Options

[Ashley_Brook]

I live with my boyfriend that I have been with for a year. I have recently had much reason to suspect that he has a wandering eye, so I made a fake profile, a girl namaed "mandy" on myyearbook.com and emailed him on it to see if he would flirt back. This is what was all said.

"Mandy" - Hey there. I was just browsing around trying to find some friends in the area and came across your profile. You seem badass, so I thought I would add you as friends. So do you go to school around here? Btw I am Amanda and I am a Chinese food fanatic too! Write back whenever you can. C ya. ;)

Him - how goes it? im new to this site, so im still figuring out how to work it, but i would like to add you as a friend. you seem badass too.

"Mandy" - This website kinda sucks honestly lol. Lots of dumb stuff on here but I just use it to keep up with friends. Anyways so do you live at home? I'd like to get to know more about you.

Him - yeah, im not to impressed with it, but i wanted to check it out and i met you so its not all that bad. so tell me about you and then i'll tell you about me. i will tell you that i checked your photos and i like what i see ;)

"Mandy" - Well I I live with a couple of my friends, and I'm thinking about going to school for a career in graphic design. It's kind of dorky but it's what I enjoy doing. And I LOVE music but I don't think I'd be a good musician.
Aww thank you! A cutie like you has to be seeing someone I bet, huh?

Him - that sounds cool, where were you thinking of going? ball state?
i lived with a few friends too, but they didnt want to work or help pay rent or do anything around the place so i sent them on their way.
haha, yeah, sorry, but im free to do as i please...how about you?

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So what do you think? He's at work right now and doesn't get home until 7am and I'm planning on confronting him as soon as he gets home.

[Ashley_Brook]

I have been tipped off by exactly 6 other people that are his friends...in the past few months. They told me that he sneaks around behind my back. I HAVE TRUSTED HIM, up until recently. I told all those people that they were crazy for thinking he would cheat on me, and then I went on to talk to him about it. He pleaded that he was only seeing me, and that there was nothing wrong in the relationship. I believed him 100%!!! BUT a few days ago, I came upon the broswer history (which he usually deletes, obviously because he has much to hide...I accidentally came upon his myyearbook profile that he went on as a different name, so I wouldn't find it. That is when I decided to make the fake profile.

Now, I understand that what I did was sneaky...but you guys have to understand that there is a difference in being sneaky for no reason except for the fact that a girl is insecure and suspecting....and knowing which red flags you need to recognize and being able to tell when someone is straight up lying to your face. THAT is when I feel it is justifiable to do whatever you feel you need to do in order to find the truth. Ever watch the show, Cheaters? It's the same concept.

I would have never made a fake profile or anything of that nature if I hadn't had a true, gut feeling he was up to no good.

And frankly, I am proud I can actually listen to my gut and not be naive like 99.9999% of other girls out there who are suckers and get cheated on all the time, because they so blindly believe that you should and can trust your everyone you date, even if they do a million shady things and there are hints left and right nonstop that he is betraying.

And yes, I shouldn't be with him....but this is how I HAD to find out. I tried to talk to him, but no dice. He straight up lied, and I knew it, so I did what I had to do. And I'm so glad.

Also, guys come on to me all the time. I seriously get hit on and flirted with pretty much every day, and every single time...I tell them that I am taken. That is what I believe a person in a serious relationship who LIVES with their significant other should say. I deserve to be with someone who will not LIE and say that they are single when they are very much not single.