Is it acceptable for parents to lie about the existence of Santa Claus? |
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Is it acceptable for parents to lie about the existence of Santa Claus? |
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Last year in my Academic Reading & Writing class, we had a debate about whether it is acceptable or appropriate for parents to lie to their children about the existence of Santa Claus. I found it really interesting... so why not bring the debate here?
We were each given a 1897 New York Sun article as QUOTE Dear Editor: I am 8 years old. Some of my little friends say, there is no Santa Claus. Papa says "If you see it in the Sun it's so." Please tell me the truth; is there a Santa Claus? Virginia, your little friends are wrong. They have been affected by the skepticism of a skeptical age. They do not believe except they see. They think that nothing can be which is not comprehensible by their little minds. All minds, Virginia, whether they be men's or children's, are little. In this great universe of ours man is a mere insect, an ant, in his intellect, as compared with the boundless world about him, as measured by the intelligence capable of grasping the whole truth and knowledge. Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus. He exists as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy. Alas! how dreary would be the world if there were no Santa Claus! It would be as dreary as if there no Virginias. There would be no childlike faith then, no poetry, no romance to make tolerable this existence. We should have no enjoyment, except in sense and sight. The eternal light with which childhood fills the world would be extinguished. Not believe in Santa Claus! You might as well not believe in fairies! You might get your papa to hire men to watch all the chimneys on Christmas Eve to catch Santa Claus, but even if they did not see Santa Claus coming down, what would they prove? Nobody sees Sanata Claus, but that is no sign that there is no Santa Claus. The most real things in the world are those that neither children nor men can see. No Santa Claus! Thank God, he lives, and he lives forever. A thousand years from now, Virginia, nay, ten times ten thousand years from now, he will continue to make glad the heart of childhood. So... yes or no? |
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![]() the name's mario ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 ![]() |
![]() ![]() i think it is, i mean it brings a smile to them & presents lol think of it as christmas spirit lol |
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![]() omnomnom ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 ![]() |
![]() ![]() i think it is, i mean it brings a smile to them & presents lol think of it as christmas spirit lol Wouldn't they obviously be smiling and happy once they have all these new presents to play with? They don't need lies and Santa Claus to make them happy. Santa Claus doesn't bring Christmas spirit by himself. There are SO many other realistic honest icons of Christmas children have to choose from. Santa Claus is one of the most popular because people choose to lie about him and put him in movies. Lying to your children isn't ever acceptable, even if you're trying to protect them. In Santa's case, you're not protecting them, just crushing their spirits in the future. When I was told Santa didn't exist, I cried for a while. I'd rather spare children that disappointment. |
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![]() the name's mario ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 ![]() |
In Santa's case, you're not protecting them, just crushing their spirits in the future. When I was told Santa didn't exist, I cried for a while. I'd rather spare children that disappointment. "crushing their spirits", c'mon when kids find out they are not little kid anymore... i don't think they'll cry about it, they are old enought to know and get over it.... when i found out i was like "oh, oh well im over it" |
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