don't know what to do:( |
don't know what to do:( |
Aug 14 2008, 11:34 PM
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I like this guy since May..he was in my class, we didn't really talk so i don't know why i just started liking him..thing is i ended up telling him and he said he has a girlfriend..but after he told me that; he would stare at me all the time then he would look away when i catch him..he even tried starting a convo with me on msn one time but i wasn't at my computer...so i thought i would get over him by summer, turns out my feelings are getting stronger and i have all these emotions bottled up inside of me and i want to let them out to him but i can't...we don't even have a relationship..i can't even talk to him on msn..that's how shy i am..i just don't what to do anymore..i'm so helpless..
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Aug 15 2008, 04:10 PM
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Talk to him. Be blunt (guys don't always "get" subtlety) Tell him how you feel.
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Aug 16 2008, 03:26 PM
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Talk to him. Be blunt (guys don't always "get" subtlety) Tell him how you feel. Molecular Studios is right We(men) are direct creatures, for the most part. I know I appreciate it when a woman gives it to directly that includes criticisms, feelings ect. But try and contain your feelings. BE VERY DIRECT. The reason he stares is that he knows you are attracted to him. All of us(men and women, although women are more subtle about it) will stare if we know that the person we are staring at is into us. It is just human nature, not that it makes it easier. Take a chance, jump in and swim like there is no tommorrow! |
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cloudcandy don't know what to do:( Aug 14 2008, 11:34 PM
Skangster That's funny. I would say find a new guy, but ... Aug 15 2008, 02:51 AM
superstitious You are going to have to work out of your shyness.... Aug 15 2008, 02:13 PM
mizzkewl06 ^
i really don't recommend killing his girlf... Aug 15 2008, 02:25 PM
coconutter Tip one: if you talk to him online, don't type... Aug 15 2008, 02:15 PM
Butterflyphoenix just follow basically what everybody's been sa... Aug 15 2008, 02:55 PM
towntown2 Don't be shy.
I think you're being a littl... Aug 15 2008, 05:31 PM
MolecularStudios ^ We like that kind of thing Aug 16 2008, 04:13 PM
paolabear20 Shyness does suck. I'm in the same boat baby, ... Aug 18 2008, 01:14 AM
ChesterRevolver you have to be persistent and get over being shy .... Aug 18 2008, 09:49 AM![]() ![]() |