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if you were cheated on would you be able to forgive
ThePrettyGirlIAm
post Aug 4 2008, 11:41 PM
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i mean honestly if you were cheated on could you forgive your mate? i know i couldn't , i mean afterall that woudn't happen me being as pretty as i am. you should all be jealous.
 
 
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post Aug 16 2008, 12:13 AM
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Well, i think i already posted here before but i saw the comment above me and it got to thinking more.

I believe i was cheated on. Not sure the exact details because i dont want to ask.

I have forgiven him though and till this day we are really good friends.
So im glad we are friends again, still i wonder what happened that day that our relationship changed but i dont feel the need to ask him.
 
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post Aug 16 2008, 12:32 AM
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QUOTE(Tomates @ Aug 16 2008, 12:13 AM) *
I believe i was cheated on. Not sure the exact details because i dont want to ask.

I have forgiven him though and till this day we are really good friends.
So im glad we are friends again, still i wonder what happened that day that our relationship changed but i dont feel the need to ask him.

i think the worst is not knowing. like some people would rather not know about the details or whatever (out of sight, out of mind?), but i'd rather know. personally, it stops me from running around in circles inside my head. i mean, it still hurts to hear the other person say it even if you already kinda figured the details out, but at the same time, it provides a sense of closure for me. like shit happens, okay, done, move on.

and i am really glad that you guys are really good friends & you were able to forgive him! that is very mature =]
 

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ThePrettyGirlIAm   if you were cheated on would you be able to forgive   Aug 4 2008, 11:41 PM
Tomates   ive been cheated on before (or so i think) i could...   Aug 5 2008, 12:28 AM
MiSSP   It depends on the situation. Me and my man have be...   Aug 5 2008, 07:14 AM
DoubleJ   I would never take a girl back if she cheated: A....   Aug 5 2008, 07:58 AM
mizzkewl06   ^ agreed. except about a boy. i've been cheate...   Aug 5 2008, 08:21 AM
yivan   QUOTE(ThePrettyGirlIAm @ Aug 5 2008, 12:4...   Aug 5 2008, 09:15 AM
Tomates   QUOTE(ThePrettyGirlIAm @ Aug 5 2008, 12:4...   Aug 5 2008, 09:48 AM
Melie   i've been cheated on and i forgave but forgett...   Aug 5 2008, 09:55 AM
Butterflyphoenix   I don't think I would be able to forgive, I...   Aug 5 2008, 01:03 PM
karmakiller   Right now, no. There's plenty of other people ...   Aug 5 2008, 01:57 PM
babygirl10   Probably not right away, but eventually. i mean it...   Aug 5 2008, 03:32 PM
aaayotiffany   QUOTE(ThePrettyGirlIAm @ Aug 5 2008, 12:4...   Aug 5 2008, 03:42 PM
Archana   it depends what kind of cheating. a one night stan...   Aug 5 2008, 06:40 PM
towntown2   I think with time I'll be able to forgive. Che...   Aug 5 2008, 06:41 PM
MissFits   When I was younger in a less serious relationship,...   Aug 5 2008, 06:52 PM
ThePrettyGirlIAm   i'm cocky? i have a ego? no you have it confus...   Aug 5 2008, 08:31 PM
Tomates   QUOTE(ThePrettyGirlIAm @ Aug 5 2008, 09:3...   Aug 5 2008, 09:11 PM
ThePrettyGirlIAm   QUOTE(Tomates @ Aug 5 2008, 09:11 PM) The...   Aug 9 2008, 12:33 AM
xoxo_proud   If it was a fling I wouldn't forgive him. But ...   Aug 5 2008, 08:49 PM
MissFits   QUOTE(xoxo_proud @ Aug 5 2008, 09:49 PM) ...   Aug 6 2008, 11:33 PM
ilauqh   i don't think i'd be able to forgive him v...   Aug 7 2008, 12:11 PM
silent-rebirth   I would be able to forgive. Better to forgive and ...   Aug 7 2008, 01:45 PM
manny-the-dino   I would forgive him eventually but I don't thi...   Aug 7 2008, 01:54 PM
xMayleex   Personally I think it depends on the situation. Sa...   Aug 9 2008, 11:40 AM
SimplicityGirl   Well depends...but likely not. It's a huge blo...   Aug 9 2008, 06:58 PM
xhidethedetails   Depends how attatched I am to the person. But yes ...   Aug 9 2008, 10:07 PM
Lil_Cloud   would i forgive him? yes. would i take him back? n...   Aug 16 2008, 12:10 AM
Tomates   Well, i think i already posted here before but i s...   Aug 16 2008, 12:13 AM
Lil_Cloud   QUOTE(Tomates @ Aug 16 2008, 12:13 AM) I ...   Aug 16 2008, 12:32 AM
sharerol   I'd most likely be able to forgive him. I...   Aug 16 2008, 02:59 AM
DoubleJ   If a girl cheated on me, then she is out the door ...   Aug 16 2008, 03:53 AM
candy55   It doesn't matter the reason if your girlfrien...   Aug 19 2008, 04:41 PM
MissUchiha   it depends, if it was like a loger term cheat, i w...   Aug 19 2008, 04:57 PM
BanDaSnowman   Sorries just wouldn't do it, my heart would be...   Aug 19 2008, 06:49 PM
aimeesayswhat   ^ just leave me just leave me be! I'll p...   Aug 19 2008, 06:52 PM
fameONE   I've done the second chances thing before. I...   Aug 19 2008, 07:00 PM
coconutter   I would, but it would be really hard to trust him....   Aug 19 2008, 10:09 PM
MimiXDawn   I've been cheated on two and a half times. I ...   Aug 20 2008, 11:25 AM
chaotiqthought   I've been cheated on. A couple times. It would...   Aug 24 2008, 02:38 PM


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