How to get sketchy guys to GET AWAY???, ugh!!!! Options

[anoniez]

There's this one sketchy indian kid who will NOT leave me alone. We drunkenly made out one night last year (yeah, I was a lush) and I promptly and bitterly regretted it once I got a good look at his face. He kept asking me on dates but I ignored him (literally) for about a year. Oh and he has a rep for being an ugly hairy sketchball.

Then he messaged me on facebook this summer and I felt bad so I made polite conversation. The only problem is, he thinks I want to be FRIENDS(or more) now. He drunk dialed me and I NEVER EVEN GAVE HIM MY NUMBER. A minute after I log onto FB he always messages me(wtf). He persists even after frequent mentions of the existence of a boyfriend, and unresponsive one-word answers after 5 minutes. What gives?

This guy can't take a hint. I've stopped answering him. I've told his friends to tell him to stop, nothing works!! What can I do, short of telling him, "Dude, you're f-ing sketchy, leave me the hell alone"??
I hate confrontation, and I hate being mean to people.

HELPPPP

[*Kristov*]

thanks lol.. I really don't want to tell him off.

but, I DO have a boyfriend.

Okay. Time out. Where is your boyfriend in all of this? If someone kept hitting on my girl relentlessly...

Death.

[anoniez]

Where is your boyfriend in all of this?

Across the country, it's summer :) Plus, it'd be really cowardly to hide behind my boyfriend, I should be able to stand up for myself (admittedly having some problems with this at the moment as you can see)


Yeah, I'm totally shallow, because this guy is creepy, sketchy (it's his NICKNAME), socially awkward, and is just totally frickin' strange to me. Yeah maybe I should give him a chance huh? Especially since I already have a boyfriend?
Rest assured I have talked to him and gotten to know him a bit, and can safely say that there is not a chance in hell, even if he WERE gorgeous. I've been trying to be nice and let him down easy but he's not taking the hints.

Alright thanks for the tips guys. I guess next time he messages me I'll just tell him straight up, maybe in a nice way, like "I'm really sorry, you're a nice guy but I have a boyfriend and I'm just not interested."
Thanks again, guess I have to suck it up and just do it!!