You still love your ex?, I really don't want to Options

[bambamboom]

My ex and i have been going out for about 9 months already. Then I dumped him because I felt he was going to dump me anyways. I felt so bad because I still had feelings for him. I started realizing this until later. Then as I threw myself back at him, he didn't want to go back. I cried and asked why? He said he still loves me but not in the way we use to love each other. Then after he told me he found another girl, she is pretty and it hurts because she is basically flirting and hitting on him while we went out.
He likes someone else.
I still love him.
I really need to get over him. Please help.
I'm a mess and depressed.
I really want to know if there is a chance for him and i to get back together.
He was my first.

[towntown2]

Your first love will be the hardest one to forget. It's normal.
This is your predicament, though:
You were the one who ended the relationship. By doing that, you should realize that you gave your boyfriend the impression that your feelings for him is gone and that he should move on as well.

Essentially, you made your bed, so you should lie in it.

As for whether or not you still have a chance with him, that's not up to us to decide.

Don't treat your first one as if he's the first, last, and only.
There'll be more guys for you.

He moved on, so you should, too.
Distract yourself with other activities that don't leave you with too much time to think.
The day will come when your fiery love for him cools.