You still love your ex?, I really don't want to Options

[bambamboom]

My ex and i have been going out for about 9 months already. Then I dumped him because I felt he was going to dump me anyways. I felt so bad because I still had feelings for him. I started realizing this until later. Then as I threw myself back at him, he didn't want to go back. I cried and asked why? He said he still loves me but not in the way we use to love each other. Then after he told me he found another girl, she is pretty and it hurts because she is basically flirting and hitting on him while we went out.
He likes someone else.
I still love him.
I really need to get over him. Please help.
I'm a mess and depressed.
I really want to know if there is a chance for him and i to get back together.
He was my first.

[aaayotiffany]

yeah, don't make it seem like this guy is the only guy for you. it will be hard. but if you really truly want to get over him, you can. you just have to set your mind on it. i know it'll be hard to not think about him, but try not to. its times like these when your friends are your best solution. just hang out with your friends and you'll realize that you don't need a guy in your life to make you happy.

yeah, you'll always care for him, especially since he was your first love. but you can't make it seem like he's irreplaceable because then he might start using you and all that junk. its not worth it.