You still love your ex?, I really don't want to Options

[bambamboom]

My ex and i have been going out for about 9 months already. Then I dumped him because I felt he was going to dump me anyways. I felt so bad because I still had feelings for him. I started realizing this until later. Then as I threw myself back at him, he didn't want to go back. I cried and asked why? He said he still loves me but not in the way we use to love each other. Then after he told me he found another girl, she is pretty and it hurts because she is basically flirting and hitting on him while we went out.
He likes someone else.
I still love him.
I really need to get over him. Please help.
I'm a mess and depressed.
I really want to know if there is a chance for him and i to get back together.
He was my first.

[Detective]

Of course your still going to have some feelings for him, he was your first. You have to realize that you will find other men out there for you, and not just only him. Keep your mind off him by keeping yourself busy, like sports or activity's you enjoy doing. I'm not going to lie to you, it's gonna be hard but you'll soon realize that this was just a little part of your life.