How to get sketchy guys to GET AWAY???, ugh!!!! Options

[anoniez]

There's this one sketchy indian kid who will NOT leave me alone. We drunkenly made out one night last year (yeah, I was a lush) and I promptly and bitterly regretted it once I got a good look at his face. He kept asking me on dates but I ignored him (literally) for about a year. Oh and he has a rep for being an ugly hairy sketchball.

Then he messaged me on facebook this summer and I felt bad so I made polite conversation. The only problem is, he thinks I want to be FRIENDS(or more) now. He drunk dialed me and I NEVER EVEN GAVE HIM MY NUMBER. A minute after I log onto FB he always messages me(wtf). He persists even after frequent mentions of the existence of a boyfriend, and unresponsive one-word answers after 5 minutes. What gives?

This guy can't take a hint. I've stopped answering him. I've told his friends to tell him to stop, nothing works!! What can I do, short of telling him, "Dude, you're f-ing sketchy, leave me the hell alone"??
I hate confrontation, and I hate being mean to people.

HELPPPP

[coconutter]

I know you don't want to feel bad for telling him off or whatever someone may suggest, so just simply act like you're interested in someone else. Say you're going out with your friends if he tries to talk to you, and if he asks if you have a boyfriend tell him you're talking to someone so he won't feel inclined to ask who.

It always works, but you might miss the extra attention.

[anoniez]

I know you don't want to feel bad for telling him off or whatever someone may suggest, so just simply act like you're interested in someone else. Say you're going out with your friends if he tries to talk to you, and if he asks if you have a boyfriend tell him you're talking to someone so he won't feel inclined to ask who.

It always works, but you might miss the extra attention.

thanks lol.. I really don't want to tell him off.

but, I DO have a boyfriend. I don't enjoy his "attention." And I've tried to bring up the boyfriend frequently, but it doesn't work :(

Looks like if this keeps up I might have to tell him I'm not interested.. then he'll just be like "Oh, I was just trying to be friendly" (yeah right) but it'll still make me feel like an a-hole.. lol.