How'd you find out he/she liked you?, Your bf/gf... Options

[sailormei]

So, how'd you find out? Did it get around the school? Did they tell you directly?

[MiszAmy04]

This is...er...a very hard question to answer? Me and my boyfriend knew eachother for a year before actually going out. And...I hated him. I absolutely abhorred him. In fact, I wanted him dead at times. In my mind, he was annoying, self-centered, mean, perverted, and just utterly wrong. Well, then I was shocked to find out...I was wrong entirely about him. In the months after he became a great friend, he always supported me, even when he knew what I was doing was stupid. The many times my ex-boyfriend broke my heart, he was always there to talk to me, and then...I would always get back with my ex. I still wasn't close to my current boyfriend, even though I was very open with him, because he was just easy to open up to. Here's where I found out that he liked me as more than I friend, I just didn't know he loved me at that point. My ex once again hurt me, and I was furious. I HATED all guys. I went to my current boyfriend, who was just a friend at that point, and was all like, "Ya know what, f*** guys...I'm bi, I'll just go lesbian and date a girl. I'm sick and tired of getting toyed with and hurt by guys like (insert ex-boyfriend's name here)". Well, we were only IMing at the time, and before I know it, he gets mad, and starts "..."ing like he's upset. So I ask him what's wrong, and he replies, "The girl I like...pretty much just stated I never have a chance with her." Well, stupid little me didn't realize until later that he was talking about me. So, I just said, "Oh, I'm so sorry." How stupid am I? Anyways, then he got offline, and disappears for a long time. And...that's when I realize just how much I miss him, and that maybe...just maybe I could like him...as more than a friend...and maybe I could love him. But, stupid girl that I am, I got back with my ex for the umptenth time. L****, my boyfriend now, finally got to where he talked to me again, after what felt like forever of not talking. And we grew close yet again, I still complained about my had been boyfriend (who was still my boyfriend at this time), and he just kept with it, but something I did that really surprised me, I flirted with L****. Anyways, my boyfriend and I took "seperate time" from eachother the Monday before Valentines. L**** started calling, we talked nonstop. I was his Valentine on Valentine's day. We talked for a long time, then he had to go for awhile (his friend was over), and then he called back around nine. I was home alone; until later that night. We talked, from 9p.m. to 2a.m. After we hung up, I was lovesick to be honest. I liked him, alot. I was like a lovesick puppy, but I didn't reveal that to him (now that we've been going out, he's told me that he felt the same way). Well, my ex and I officially broke up that Tuesday, and then February 18, the following Wednesday, I introduced L**** to my two bestfriends (who ironically are in a relationship with eachother). They really liked him. Then, L**** and myself found ourselves in a, "You know...if you wanted to, I'd go out with you, but you know, only if you wanted to, I mean, I'd want to to, you know?" conversation. Finally, after asking my friends for their permission, he asked me out that day. We've been going out for a little over three months, and I love him a ton. I also found out, that he's liked me a lot longer than I've liked him...

Hehehe...love is so odd...

Awwwwwwwwwwwww so sweet..i actually read word for word..heeh wish u two da bestest of luck..and sometimes i be feelin like i wanna become bi too..im like ..dese fucken guys play too much..so fudge it im gonna become gay..but nahh i was never close to bein a lesbian..lol

Hmmm..Well me and my bf knew each other for a lil over 8 months..but we was just normal friends..but we had a lot of things in common..and he made me laugh shit load of times..then he introduced me to his cousin..jes for us to become friends..but then we ended up going out for like 3 months..and while me and his cousin wus goin out..he told me dat he liked me a lot..since the 1st time we talked..and i think i did have feelings for him while i was with his cuzzin also..i know dats messtup..but i couldnt help it..so i ended up breakin up with him and 2 wks later..he asked me out..and of course i said yes..it has been 1 month and 11 days..*5.13.04*