How soon is too soon?, your love dies, how long should you wait. Options

[xDarkHope]

I've recently lost the most important person in my life. Edit:He was killed in a car accident about a month ago. We were together for almost a year and a half [two days shy]. We talked about getting married. We'd looked at rings and had one picked out, all he needed was money. We were perfect.

How long would you say is not long enough to wait to find someone else?

In my opinion it really depends on how long you were with the person and just how well you got along. Really it's a personal decision, I'm just curious how long people would wait.

[mizzkewl06]

you can't really set the amount of time in how long you wait to move on. some people can bounce right back and in less than a month be in a new relationship while others take a few months, even a year to try to start seeing other people. i, for example, have been in a situation where i was with someone for over 2 years and we broke up and within 2 months i was in a different relationship (the one i'm in now). it turned out better than i had ever hoped, but that doesn't mean i didn't care about my ex. then again i was also in a situation where i was in a relationship for just 6 months and it took me a while to get over it. it all really depends on you, the situation you're in, and how/why things ended.

& like aimee said "ice cream is your friend" in this kind of situation! good luck with everything & keep your head up, things happen for a reason.