Starting to question my sexuality, seriously now. Options

[fadingcolorsx]

So, I was talking to a good friend of mine today, and she told me how she "thinks" she's bi. But turns out, it was just another phase. But ever since this morning, she's got me thinking. Like, I've questioned my sexuality before, but never this much. Now, it seems like the more I try to tell myself that I'm straight, I tend to fall more towards bi.

What do I do?

..If there's anything I can do.

Also, if it does turn out to be like that, how should I tell my mom? She's one super "Eats everything the church teaches" scripture eater. And if I tell her, I can expect to be in hell for the rest of my life.

[anoniez]

I wouldn't worry about it. It's completely normal for young women to be curious and experiment with bisexuality. Do you see yourself as being able to have a relationship with a woman later on in life? Or do you see yourself married to a man? If the latter, it may just be a phase that a lot of girls go through.

I haven't told my mom yet and honestly I'm not planning to, it's none of her business and she wouldn't understand. I get the feeling she wouldn't know how to handle it and I wouldn't want to subject her or me to that awkwardness when I'm really the same person anyway.





One good way I know of to tell which gender you're attracted to: When you walk into a room, who do you notice first? The boys, or the girls? (or both?) :)