Should I. dont know what to do.. Options

[wildncrazyath3rt]

well i don't know if this sounds selfish of me... but yeah. This morning i called my bf. and he picked up we talked and i find out he is sick..( because the way he is talking on the phone) well he told me if i could call him later because he is at work. so i told him to call me when he can.. that would prolly be after work. i mean i hope he calls me back... and also i feel bad that i kinda gave him the sick ness.... i kinda want to see him and such. but at the same time i dont know what to do because i want to call him b4 he calls me back.. and i feel like im selfish and just no leaving him alone. annd at the same time should i just let him call me? or somthing? and i miss him more when he is like this because i feel bad. plus i know he needs his rest. so i mean should I just leave him alone till he calls me? i mean what if he doesnt? and i get nervous about these things too.. i just dont know what to do

[mizzkewl06]

i think you should relax. don't be so anxious. try to preoccupy yourself with something else. don't work yourself up worrying about whether or not he'll call you (chances are he will, if he can!). don't make every second of your life revolve around him, and don't expect him to make every second of his life about you. it's not like he's not doing anything, he's working and you have to give him his space. just try to relax and wait it out.