Should I. dont know what to do.. Options

[wildncrazyath3rt]

well i don't know if this sounds selfish of me... but yeah. This morning i called my bf. and he picked up we talked and i find out he is sick..( because the way he is talking on the phone) well he told me if i could call him later because he is at work. so i told him to call me when he can.. that would prolly be after work. i mean i hope he calls me back... and also i feel bad that i kinda gave him the sick ness.... i kinda want to see him and such. but at the same time i dont know what to do because i want to call him b4 he calls me back.. and i feel like im selfish and just no leaving him alone. annd at the same time should i just let him call me? or somthing? and i miss him more when he is like this because i feel bad. plus i know he needs his rest. so i mean should I just leave him alone till he calls me? i mean what if he doesnt? and i get nervous about these things too.. i just dont know what to do

[NoSex]

You seem really high-strung and anxious over this... which is, essentially, a non-issue. This anxiety could actually demonstrate a trust issue within your relationship: if you become so worked up over such a minuscule "problem," you might want to reconsider your exact position in this relationship. In either case, to answer your question more simply: If you feel he truly needs his rest, allow him to take all the time he needs (don't worry, whether or not he calls, and when, is not that serious of an issue). If you don't feel he is all too sick, give the boy a ring if you care... and then, you can ask him how he feels.

In either case, I don't think you would be making a mistake, because I highly doubt that this sort of thing is anything your man would consider an issue. You just seem to be having a security issue right now.