I know it's not always the best thing to ask strangers..., But you guys give me unbaised answers. Options

[Cujiine]

Ok well I've posted about this guy before but it was about a year and a half ago... anyways, I've been in then out of a relationship with one of my best guy friends. We're still really good friends and we know that we both still love each other. I'm just not sure if I want to get into a relationship with him because he's going to another country for three years and I will only get to see him for two months starting August before he leaves. He said he'd be willing to get back together but doesn't want to keep me from having fun. I just want to know what you'd do in my situation.

[karmakiller]

My suggestion is don't get involved with him. But don't cut off your contact with him. I think that you two should remain friends and still be there for each other and that gab. I think if you get into a relationship with him and he's going to be gone for three years, you're putting a lot of pressure on the both of you. I think that you should let him go to where he's going and experience things and have fun without having to worry about you and calling you. If you two remain friends, there's less stress on when and how often you talk. When he comes back, if the feelings are still strong, then I say go for it.