jairus needs help?, there might be a mistake... Options

[ReggieM]

Ok i guess theres th this girl i like or have my eye for a couple of months, and we hung out well actually she bought me dinner for a favor i did for her in the past. And that night went really good. But we havnt really had other chances to hang out.

She also has a winggirl or friend thats mutual to us and i always invite her too places with the girl because it eases the tension.

Im just wondering what else can i do.

1.im not going to confess i like her...
2.Her friend is out of the city at college
3.She doesnt drive or nothing/no aim myspace facebook.

i could prolly figure this out myself but MAYBE someone has a miracle idea.talking on the phone is a option but pointless dont ya think.

[dustbunny]

steven pretty much said it all. if you're waiting to figure out her feelings, you're not going to find out by just sitting on your ass and waiting for some message to fall onto your lap. you're going to have to use your uh, skills of human interaction? to find out.

girls usually won't just go "OMG I LIKE YOU" unless they know the other person likes them too; the way it used to work was Person A has flirty cute talk about "zomg who do you like" with Person B, Person A/B goes omg not telling teehee, Person B/A goes TELL MEEE..etcetc

basically, do not do. instead, do the hang out thing: time = relationship progression.

signs of goodness (still depends on each individual girl, but somewhat of a guideline):

a bit of holding back/hesitation - a little nervousness in speech or actions is a good thing, it shows the girl is a bit shy around you. if she's totally upfront and comfortable around you right off the bat it could either mean she's PERFECTLY WONDERFUL around you, or just..really consider you as a "friend" / "girlfriend".

does not ask if her other friends can tag along during playdates. 1-1 anything is good, 1 girl and 4 bffs and 1 boy is not good.

does not take 4 days to return a text or call

makes somewhat of an effort in dressing to impress (reminder: still depends on girl, but applicable to many)

doesn't just talk about her own life problems which consist of girl/girl drama and girl/boy drama. if she asks about your life, or just is genuinely curious about anything to do with you, good.



eh, only stuff that came to mind at the moment.