preventing sex Options

[pointeitoutx33]

I am 15, and I feel like I am ready to have sex. It just feels comfortable now. About a year ago, I thought I would never have the need until marriage, but things have changed. I have thought about it carefully and frequently lately.

There is a boy I have been with for over two years, and I really like him. He has never pressured me into having sex, I feel completely ready, but nervous. I am not some trashy slut who will have sex with anyone, he is the only one i would feel comfortable with

The thing is, I want it, but parts of me don't want to take the risk of pregnancy. I refuse to take birth control because it made my friend gain weight and she used to be my size, and now her body isn't so hott lol.

I don't want to get pregnant, I have so much going for me. I am in a ballet company and I am an involved, well-rounded, top rank student. I don't want to throw that all away having a kid as a teenager. I just don't know what to do.

[marzipan]

I'd say that you should wait. :/
Just as you said, you have so much going for you. You shouldn't throw it all away and take the risk. Who knows if you'll be with this guy for the rest of your life? Why would you want to have sex with someone that you won't be with later on in life?
I think you've given yourself reason enough to be abstinent.

But, if you really want to do it, then you should definitely use protection.
Just please don't do anything that you will regret in the long run. You should think long and hard about what this could do to your future.