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Could someone just read this, please?
MissFits
post Jun 30 2008, 10:21 PM
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My boyfriend's about to go to jail, I think.
I can't talk to anyone around here about it because that would risk someone telling cops more than they already know.
I just need to talk to someone.
It's not like I didn't know he'd go to jail at some point in our relationship, but dating someone that's incarcerated is hard. Not only does it take a toll on your relationship, it takes a toll on you.

I really just want someone to talk to me about it.
 
 
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post Jun 30 2008, 11:52 PM
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He's probably just go to county which isn't that bad. I could visit him twice a week. But you can only get congecals if you aren't married.

It was close to 1000 dollars in the wallet. He didn't see the badge, the guy he was with saw the badge and took it and gave steven half the money. The house we were going to get had a 500 dollar down payment, and Steven used to build houses so we could have fised it up all nice. we were so excited, we just kept saying that it was a sign from god he found it within feet of the house we wanted to buy. We thought it was a sign things were going to get better for us, I mean he is about to get his license for tattooing and we thought everything was just setting up perfectly. That was like the best stroke of luck ever.
He didn't look at the ID or anyhting. He didn't know who's it was because eh didn't want to be tempted to give it back when it could have helped us out so much. I mean, that's the exact amount of money we needed to get the house.

It's like everything went from perfect to terrible in 15 minutes.

People find other people's wallets all the time and nothing EVER happens, but if you find a cops wallet it's like a federal case and shit.
If he gets all those heavy charges he'd be doing at least a year, at the very very least. I think we are looking at something closer to 5-10. If he's in jail for 5 years I just don't know how that would work. Seeing your boyfriend for twice a week through some glass on a telephone is not a good way to carry on a relationship. I wouldn't be able to really see him until I was f**king 23, he'd be 25. I'm so scared this is going to kill my perfect relationship.
I never knew someone that meant as much to me as Steven does. He's one of the only people in the world I know I can really trust for anything, and now I won't have him. He completely supports me. He's pretty nervous and I am petrified. I'm trying to stay strong for him and I know I'd try my f**king hardest to make things work, but I don't know how I could wait at least 5 years for a kiss or a hug or smelling him. The thought of 5 years without waking up next to him breaks my heart.
The agents should be here tomorrow or the next day, and we will find out exactly what charges he could get, but he already has a ttp which they could easily turn into a bench warrant if they can't get him on anything else.

Sorry for all the spelling errors and stuff. I'm pretty bent out of shape over this.
 

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MissFits   Could someone just read this, please?   Jun 30 2008, 10:21 PM
brooklyneast05   me   Jun 30 2008, 10:40 PM
Melie   i'm here if you need to talk. how long is he ...   Jun 30 2008, 10:41 PM
Tungster   lol did he rape someone?   Jun 30 2008, 10:41 PM
Insurmountable   I'll talk to you, I'm a good listener if i...   Jun 30 2008, 10:42 PM
MissFits   He found a wallet and kept the money. He split it ...   Jun 30 2008, 10:47 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(MissFits @ Jun 30 2008, 11:47 PM) H...   Jun 30 2008, 10:48 PM
brooklyneast05   man that dude must have been carrying some major c...   Jun 30 2008, 10:48 PM
Tungster   Wow what are the chances the found wallet was from...   Jun 30 2008, 10:49 PM
moninja   oh dang..i'm sorry to hear that :/ &serio...   Jun 30 2008, 10:50 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(moninja @ Jun 30 2008, 11:50 PM) oh...   Jun 30 2008, 10:51 PM
KryMeARiver   Hopefully he goes to some white collar joint where...   Jun 30 2008, 10:56 PM
mipadi   Classy.   Jun 30 2008, 10:57 PM
MissFits   He's probably just go to county which isn...   Jun 30 2008, 11:52 PM
Sandraaa   QUOTE(MissFits @ Jul 1 2008, 06:52 AM) we...   Jul 3 2008, 12:56 PM
DoubleJ   I'm going to be honest when I say that karma i...   Jun 30 2008, 11:57 PM
evamariesays   QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Jun 30 2008, 11:57 PM) I...   Jul 5 2008, 06:28 AM
karmakiller   It wasn't just a cops wallet. It was a cops wa...   Jul 1 2008, 12:12 AM
MissFits   Man. I've been woken up by a theft detective f...   Jul 3 2008, 12:20 PM
superstitious   QUOTE(MissFits @ Jul 3 2008, 12:20 PM) Yo...   Jul 3 2008, 02:05 PM
-----   I guess I'm sorry and all, but being someone w...   Jul 3 2008, 12:29 PM
brooklyneast05   QUOTE(----- @ Jul 3 ...   Jul 3 2008, 01:03 PM
thatonegirl143   wow! funnie that this came up in a topic! ...   Jul 5 2008, 02:32 AM
MissFits   You act like we are bad people. The down payment f...   Jul 5 2008, 02:46 PM
thatonegirl143   well like he said..is everything okay now??   Jul 5 2008, 02:50 PM
MissFits   Oh, Yeah. I mean, they say it's okey. The sher...   Jul 5 2008, 02:57 PM
DoubleJ   ^Agreed QUOTE(MissFits @ Jul 5 2008, 03...   Jul 5 2008, 04:59 PM
thatonegirl143   oh gosh! i TOTALLY know how that feels!...   Jul 5 2008, 03:09 PM
Sandraaa   Lucky dumbf**ks. I hope next time, he does go to j...   Jul 5 2008, 04:41 PM
thatonegirl143   QUOTE(Sandraaa @ Jul 5 2008, 02:41 PM) Yo...   Jul 5 2008, 06:19 PM
MissFits   But what he did wasn't illegal, immoral, but n...   Jul 6 2008, 07:46 AM
THAT-ONE-GIRL-143   yeah..i feel you..same went with my boyfren. what ...   Jul 6 2008, 04:29 PM
KryMeARiver   Send him this: IF YOU WERE KILLED TOMORROW, I WOU...   Jul 6 2008, 06:56 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(KryMeARiver @ Jul 6 2008, 07:56 PM)...   Jul 6 2008, 07:12 PM


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