Need some advice. Do i believe her or not?, Hmmmm Options

[swisher]

ok so heres the deal.

ive been talkin wit this girl who lives in cali and im in Tx. meet on myspace. Weve been talking alot and well we seem to talk alot about how we feel about one another. like shes asked me 5-6 times what i think of her...and she finally told me shes gt a crush on me. but thing is shes got a man....and shes been telling me alot of things that would make ny guy think that this girl wants to be something more..but..shes got a man lives in cali and doesnt know what i look like.

so the Q is...is she being for real? or is she a fake?

ya very confused. Any advice would help Thnx.

[karmakiller]

Meeting someone on Myspace isn't something I would not consider to become a successful relationship.

Meeting someone who is already in a relationship on Myspace is something I would deffinitely NOT consider to be a succesful relationship.

Even if there wasn't someone else involved, it probably wouldn't have worked. You could've had your fun and not taken it as something seriously and it would be okay. But she has a boyfriend and lives far away. Don't mess things up for her and her boyfriend. I know it sounds harsh, but things between you two wouldn't have worked out, and putting ideas and doubts in her head are just going to damage the relationship she has now.