My boyfriend is going to college., this is hard. |
My boyfriend is going to college., this is hard. |
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QUOTE I don't know how this will work... He wants to make it work. ![]() How can I make it work... I felt I lost my a lot of my friends in High school since they are going far away for college too. It's over but you can still relate to the problem if any |
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background about it: (I'm typing on my itouch so bare with me)
We have been together for about 8 months and half. I said that phrase " ill cheat on him before he cheats" because he is not that type to cheat on me... He is totally against open relationships and such. So I highly doubt he would. I was his first real gf and all. He is going to university of new haven. I'm going to rhode island college. Its an hr and 45 mins away from each other. Not that bad right? Wrong. He is there for golf and he can only see me at the most once a month. Love to me now is something doesn't matter how old or young you are. You just know. For me its hard to say I love you to a person so yeah I think since we are both going to college have matured to what is a just highschool relationship to something more. |
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For me its hard to say I love you to a person so yeah I think since we are both going to college have matured to what is a just highschool relationship to something more. Right. Maybe that's what you think right now, but it's going to keep being a high school relationship until you make it through at least a year of college. Do you realize how much a person changes in that one year of college? Tremendously. Even if you don't cheat on each other, when you meet up again for, say, Christmas break, you might realize that you've become two entirely different people. I've known people who were together for 4-5 years and ended up breaking up within that first year. Everyone thinks they'll make it, but you really just never know. |
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