My boyfriend is going to college., this is hard. |
My boyfriend is going to college., this is hard. |
Jun 15 2008, 09:30 PM
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QUOTE I don't know how this will work... He wants to make it work. How can I make it work... I felt I lost my a lot of my friends in High school since they are going far away for college too. It's over but you can still relate to the problem if any |
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Jun 19 2008, 12:30 AM
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background about it: (I'm typing on my itouch so bare with me)
We have been together for about 8 months and half. I said that phrase " ill cheat on him before he cheats" because he is not that type to cheat on me... He is totally against open relationships and such. So I highly doubt he would. I was his first real gf and all. He is going to university of new haven. I'm going to rhode island college. Its an hr and 45 mins away from each other. Not that bad right? Wrong. He is there for golf and he can only see me at the most once a month. Love to me now is something doesn't matter how old or young you are. You just know. For me its hard to say I love you to a person so yeah I think since we are both going to college have matured to what is a just highschool relationship to something more. |
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Jun 21 2008, 10:45 AM
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For me its hard to say I love you to a person so yeah I think since we are both going to college have matured to what is a just highschool relationship to something more. Right. Maybe that's what you think right now, but it's going to keep being a high school relationship until you make it through at least a year of college. Do you realize how much a person changes in that one year of college? Tremendously. Even if you don't cheat on each other, when you meet up again for, say, Christmas break, you might realize that you've become two entirely different people. I've known people who were together for 4-5 years and ended up breaking up within that first year. Everyone thinks they'll make it, but you really just never know. |
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aimeesayswhat My boyfriend is going to college. Jun 15 2008, 09:30 PM
Synesthesia How far away is he going? Have you discussed any o... Jun 15 2008, 09:31 PM
aimeesayswhat ^ nope.
and Im going to in state college that wo... Jun 15 2008, 09:32 PM
absinthe I know three people who've had this situation.... Jun 15 2008, 09:40 PM
IzzyGrace QUOTE(absinthe @ Jun 15 2008, 09:40 PM) T... Jun 16 2008, 12:58 PM
absinthe ^I think if you guys truly love each other, you... Jun 19 2008, 01:34 AM
Insurmountable You know the best way to make this work, if you bo... Jun 15 2008, 09:53 PM
katebaybayy my boyfriend is in college too so i know how youre... Jun 15 2008, 11:47 PM
ojairus college girls/parties are very tempting to a young... Jun 16 2008, 12:17 AM
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mipadi QUOTE(katebaybayy @ Jun 16 2008, 01:24 AM... Jun 16 2008, 12:25 AM

katebaybayy QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 16 2008, 01:25 AM) Yes... Jun 18 2008, 04:21 PM


Rachel QUOTE(katebaybayy @ Jun 18 2008, 02:21 PM... Jun 20 2008, 12:57 PM

LoveToMySilas QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 16 2008, 01:25 AM) Yes... Aug 3 2008, 08:58 PM

Joannnnnne QUOTE(LoveToMySilas @ Aug 3 2008, 06:58 P... Aug 3 2008, 09:02 PM
applejaxkz QUOTE(ojairus @ Jun 16 2008, 01:17 AM) co... Jul 31 2008, 06:58 PM
ojairus QUOTEjust as long as they keep to themselves.
actu... Jun 16 2008, 12:27 AM
x-hotchocbun-x i'm in high school , year 12 ..
and my bf iz ... Jun 16 2008, 12:43 AM
Sandraaa He's going to cheat on you. Here, take this y... Jun 16 2008, 01:18 AM
aimeesayswhat QUOTE(Sandraaa @ Jun 16 2008, 02:18 AM) H... Jun 16 2008, 01:20 PM
heartquasm Of course this is going to be hard. In the end, i... Jun 16 2008, 12:55 PM
Just_Dream QUOTE(heartquasm @ Jun 16 2008, 10:55 AM)... Jun 18 2008, 04:43 PM
Synesthesia The University of New Hampshire? So you'll be ... Jun 16 2008, 07:36 PM
synkro QUOTE(aimeesayswhat @ Jun 16 2008, 08:20 ... Jun 16 2008, 07:51 PM
katebaybayy QUOTE(synkro @ Jun 16 2008, 08:51 PM) fro... Jun 18 2008, 04:19 PM
M16A4 If you're not going to be committed on the lon... Jun 16 2008, 10:44 PM
aimeesayswhat I love him... It took me long and hard to figure t... Jun 16 2008, 11:43 PM
Just_Dream QUOTE(aimeesayswhat @ Jun 16 2008, 09:43 ... Jul 24 2008, 06:23 AM
cakedout QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Jul 24 2008, 04:23 AM)... Aug 3 2008, 01:10 AM
mipadi QUOTE(aimeesayswhat @ Jun 19 2008, 01:30 ... Jun 19 2008, 08:46 AM
Just_Dream QUOTE(aimeesayswhat @ Jun 18 2008, 10:30 ... Jun 20 2008, 02:18 AM
aimeesayswhat editt::/// Jun 21 2008, 09:39 AM
mipadi QUOTE(aimeesayswhat @ Jun 21 2008, 10:39 ... Jun 21 2008, 10:47 AM
----- lol "golf practice"
start getting suspi... Jun 21 2008, 10:49 AM
Sandraaa QUOTE(----- @ Jun 21... Jun 21 2008, 11:37 AM
wulawula QUOTEcollege girls/parties are very tempting to a ... Jul 1 2008, 03:49 AM
bumbumx3 this is how i felt about a year ago because my boy... Jul 2 2008, 03:15 PM
cakedout yeah, aint gonna lie, but chances are it wont work... Jul 7 2008, 04:25 PM
ojairus =0 Jul 24 2008, 03:02 PM
Just_Dream 8 months with a guys she didn't really like...... Jul 24 2008, 03:14 PM
Sandraaa ^ Liar alert? Haha. Making up excuses for his supp... Jul 26 2008, 02:25 PM
dhxdezigns really, the only way to make it work is if you bot... Jul 31 2008, 05:01 AM
aimeesayswhat Woah this has been bumped...Oh i see why haha
QUO... Jul 31 2008, 02:44 PM
Tungster ^ oh snap...! aimee going all out on yall bi3... Jul 31 2008, 02:54 PM
Sandraaa LOL Aimee. Damn American who doesn't understan... Jul 31 2008, 03:06 PM
moninja a milli a milli a milli a milli Aug 1 2008, 03:32 AM
KidDupri QUOTE(moninja @ Aug 1 2008, 03:32 AM) a m... Aug 3 2008, 03:01 AM
ojairus QUOTEI thought those students partied the most. _u... Aug 5 2008, 02:08 AM![]() ![]() |