My boyfriend is going to college., this is hard. |
My boyfriend is going to college., this is hard. |
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QUOTE I don't know how this will work... He wants to make it work. ![]() How can I make it work... I felt I lost my a lot of my friends in High school since they are going far away for college too. It's over but you can still relate to the problem if any |
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![]() we jerkin' ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 ![]() |
college girls/parties are very tempting to a young man.
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![]() Kate ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 658,326 ![]() |
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![]() Kate ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 658,326 ![]() |
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![]() i've never wanted anything rationale. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 ![]() |
no. my bf is in linguistics and hes very commited to me. he doesnt party at all. and he goes to University of Florida. Thats like.. party heaven Chillax, Michael was making a funny. ^I think if you guys truly love each other, you'd figure it out. Plain and simple. Lol. "truly in love" yeah mmmkay. Anyway, love isn't always the answer. Just because two people truly care about each other doesn't make the distance any easier or make the temptations of college disappear. It's not fair to ask either one of them to give up going out and partying, because that's part of the college experience and if they do give it up, they are going to feel like they are missing out on something. It's not fair to ask someone to give up something like experiencing college just because you are in a committed relationships. Honestly, most people who go to college with a significant other don't last through the first semester, let alone year. It takes a real commitment to eachother and to making it work. You are going to have to give up things and talk to eachother everyday. Why can you only see eachother *maybe* once a month? Golf shouldn't take up too much of his life and if it does, where is the fun in college? |
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