horrible dad Options

[PlasticPiolet]

Alot people have told me i have all these things girls wants that they don't, and i have a loving father who care for me alots blah blah blah. i know my dad so well! everytime i was trying to talk to him about having a boyfriend he scream and shout at me! and later on when he founds out i was going out with someone, he screams at me more! he said i am only allowed a boyfriend when i am eighteen, and i am only allow to go out with guys that goes to university. well, it's not like he's going to choose who i marry to right?

So, now that i am nearly 18, i have a boyfriend.. and my parent's has left to live in aussie on tuesday, but they pretty much expect me to go on msn every night so they can talk to me, i totally understand what they're thinking. but what i don't understand is, why can't i be like a normal 17 year olds kid that allows to hangs with the mates at night time? it's not like i am doing anything wrong like taking drugs or smoking and things like that.

I've live my whole life wondering why is it so horrible? sometimes he's nice sometimes he's just, woah, horrible! and a few minutes ago he just told me from now on, he doesn't want to know me anymore, and my mum is crying :/ which is so awful cause i love her so much! she understands the most.. i heard him saying to my mum "don't try to beg me to talk to her, i don't want to f**king know her anymore just f**k off! you can cry all you want but don't beg me and if you do i will f**king beat the shit out of you" horrible isn't it? i have a loving family nobody in my family ever beats anyone up, i was just so surprise he can even say that! sometimes i don't want to live life anymore, it's not worth it at all!

It's like, he wants me to live up to his expectation, for example: go to school, go to the best university in town, find a good job, find a boyfriend who goes to university. i know that every parents wish to have a perfect child. but i just can't try to be someone who i am not! and i have no brothers or sisters, everytime i try to talk to them/him, all he does is yell at me

horrible life

[heyo-captain-jac...]

Einstein dropped out too, but not everybody ends up like him. The numbers are there, 99% of all dropouts flip hamburgers or dig ditches.

[Rachel]

Einstein dropped out too, but not everybody ends up like him. The numbers are there, 99% of all dropouts flip hamburgers or dig ditches.

Oh please, you just pulled that out of your ass.


Neither of my parents went to college and are both very successful. My sister dropped out of college and went to massage school and is also pretty damn successful. If you don't go to college, you need to have a plan and choose a career that doesn't necessarily require a degree. Also, why don't you consider taking classes online or going into a field where there is trade schools or something (like going to culinary school)?

Don't ever feel like it's necessary to pay thousands of dollars for a degree that might not even be worth it for what you're trying to do. Some people just aren't meant for college.