My boyfriend is going to college., this is hard. Options

[AimeeLynn]

I don't know how this will work... He wants to make it work.

How can I make it work...

I felt I lost my a lot of my friends in High school since they are going far away for college too.

It's over but you can still relate to the problem if any

[AimeeLynn]

background about it: (I'm typing on my itouch so bare with me)

We have been together for about 8 months and half.
I said that phrase " ill cheat on him before he cheats" because he is not that type to cheat on me... He is totally against open relationships and such. So I highly doubt he would. I was his first real gf and all.

He is going to university of new haven. I'm going to rhode island college. Its an hr and 45 mins away from each other. Not that bad right? Wrong. He is there for golf and he can only see me at the most once a month.

Love to me now is something doesn't matter how old or young you are. You just know.
For me its hard to say I love you to a person so yeah I think since we are both going to college have matured to what is a just highschool relationship to something more.

[Just_Dream]

Love to me now is something doesn't matter how old or young you are. You just know.
For me its hard to say I love you to a person so yeah I think since we are both going to college have matured to what is a just highschool relationship to something more.

I think you're misunderstanding what I meant. Of course age doesn't matter, but HOW LONG you've been dating matters. That's why I asked how long you two have been dating. People say they love each other so easily, and then they easily take it back, especially if they've only been dating for a short time. this is not always the case, but I know it's happened too often to deny it. Age does not matter because I fell in love when I was only 14 (eh.. I guess 15) and I honestly knew that my current boyfriend is "the one".

Regardless, an hour and 45 minutes is not so bad, but at last you two will be in the same time zone. If you two really care about each other, then it will work out on it's own. If you two can't contact each other that often, at least email or text each other, that's not so hard. Honestly, if you've put 8 months into this, why not keep it going? Just remember that college changes people, and as long as you're willing to accept what might happen, then it'll be fine, especially since you are confident that he will never cheat on you.