My boyfriend is going to college., this is hard. Options

[AimeeLynn]

I don't know how this will work... He wants to make it work.

How can I make it work...

I felt I lost my a lot of my friends in High school since they are going far away for college too.

It's over but you can still relate to the problem if any

[AimeeLynn]

background about it: (I'm typing on my itouch so bare with me)

We have been together for about 8 months and half.
I said that phrase " ill cheat on him before he cheats" because he is not that type to cheat on me... He is totally against open relationships and such. So I highly doubt he would. I was his first real gf and all.

He is going to university of new haven. I'm going to rhode island college. Its an hr and 45 mins away from each other. Not that bad right? Wrong. He is there for golf and he can only see me at the most once a month.

Love to me now is something doesn't matter how old or young you are. You just know.
For me its hard to say I love you to a person so yeah I think since we are both going to college have matured to what is a just highschool relationship to something more.

[mipadi]

He is going to university of new haven. I'm going to rhode island college. Its an hr and 45 mins away from each other. Not that bad right? Wrong. He is there for golf and he can only see me at the most once a month.

I'm in a similar situation to you. I'm in grad school, and my girlfriend is a year younger and still in undergrad. Our schools are about 300 miles apart, and next year we can only see each other at most once a month. Even if we had the time to travel more often, neither of us really have the money for bus or train tickets, and neither of us own a car. But I think it'll work; we can still talk on the phone, we'll have a fun weekend every month, and it's only for a year.

I guess you have to decide whether it's worth it. Honestly, if you're going to spend four years seeing each other only once a month, I'd say screw that. That's no fun. I wouldn't be doing a long-distance thing myself if it was going to last more than a year or so.