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Advice, Friends with beneifits.
hellosincerelyme
post Jun 15 2008, 03:44 PM
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I kind of need some advice. Par-say

Me and my best friend have always been something 'more' you know?
I was her first everything, and she was mine. We both always had a significant other. Yet me or her, would always still be each other.

I'm kind of sort of falling in love with her. And I'm wondering if friends with benefits will ever be anything more than that.

Or its it just sex, and comfort when me or her is alone.

What do you guys think? sad.gif
 
 
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Rachel
post Jun 17 2008, 02:32 AM
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i've never wanted anything rationale.
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You really can't be BEST friends with benefits. You can't really even be friends with benefits. Once you get into sex, emotions are bound to follow. Meaningless sex, is at best, with someone you don't even know.

My advice, test out the waters and see if she's feeling the same way. Ask her even, straight up, do you see us being more than just hooking up, because I do. Now know that your friendship probably won't be the same after this conversation, especially if she says no but it's better than wondering WHAT IF for the rest of your life.
 

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