My boyfriend is going to college., this is hard. Options

[AimeeLynn]

I don't know how this will work... He wants to make it work.

How can I make it work...

I felt I lost my a lot of my friends in High school since they are going far away for college too.

It's over but you can still relate to the problem if any

[Insurmountable]

You know the best way to make this work, if you both want it to work. Is first you both need to discuss when you'll be seeing each other, how often will you guys talk, costs and things like that. How long is the drive in between? Will you guys be willing to meet half way possibly if it is really far. Do you plan on talking on the phone everyday, do you guys have good plans that can take up that much talking, etc.

It may seem like a lot, but it really isn't.

In all honestly, theres no telling what will happen when you two will separate. But its a matter of how much you both want it to work. It takes a lot of trust to be in a long distance relationship, and if your one to worry all the time if he is doing something he shouldn't..then its probably not going to work. If you guys don't keep in contact with each other, its probably not going to work.

So talk to each other, be realistic with your goals, and see what happens.